YOU CAN MAGAZINE Vol 6 | Page 60

Putting themselves in the girls’ shoes, they realized they couldn’t expect a bunch of teenagers to just show up to an event at the library. They had to go out and find the girls themselves, and began visiting different schools in the DC area, sitting down and connecting with the girls over lunch to pitch their idea. The results were night and day, as Porsha and Rasha saw interested in the program rise, eventually turning into membership and the formation of their first group. “Each meeting concludes with a family style lunch, a time At the start of each meeting, Porsha and Rasha have their girls pick a color that represents their mood, feelings, or attitude of the day—something that gauges the temperature of the room and gives them an idea on how to steer the session. Through a course of activities, discussions, and usually a guest speaker, they gather and converse over a range of topics, from career paths and how to present themselves, to advice on relationships and simply navigating through life. Each meeting concludes with a family style lunch, a time when the pressure is off and everybody, including Porsha and Rasha, can be themselves—a time where the real friendships are built. when the pressure is o f f a n d e v e r y b o d y, including Porsha and Rasha, can be t h e m s e l ve s — a t i m e where the real friendships are built.” At the end of the meeting, the girls pick another color to apply their “final coat,” again, something that represent their present mood, feelings or attitude. Very rarely is it the same.