Are You a Control Freak?
8 Ways To Practice Choice & Letting Go
By Kalani McClain
D o you consider yourself a “control freak?” Are you
super organized, and do you often predict the
outcomes and behaviors of others, getting thrown for
a loop if things don’t go your way? Do you even find
yourself telling others how they should be living their
lives and if they would just listen to you they would be
happier?
Having a sense of control gives off a perception of
stability.
Feeling in control eliminates any
“unknowns” in your life, thus allowing you to know
exactly what to expect. But how happy are you when
you’re desperately trying to “control” every outcome in
your life? If it’s weighing on you and creating an
abundance of stress, I highly encourage you to start
(today!) practicing the power of choosing and letting
go of outcomes.
Whether you’re seeking perfection, feeling like you
have to do everything yourself, controlling someone
else’s behavior, or being impatient, there are eight
impactful ways to change your mindset to choice and
let go of control.