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T Ÿ Ÿ Ÿ Ÿ ransforming reality is big in the “how-to” world. In just about every “how-to” book, reality is the center piece. How To Be Successful How To Find Your Soulmate How To Win Friends and Influence People How to Become Stinkin’ Rich without Odor These books all are about changing your reality from one state (being a loser, poor, lonely) to another state (being a winner, rich, in love). It is also worthwhile to note that the above books really should be called: Having it ALL... Ÿ How To Be Successful ... and Thus Not Suffer Insecurity Ÿ How To Find Your Soulmate … and Not Suffer Loneliness I hazard a theory here. Every human being, either consciously and/or subconsciously thinks/believes/feels, that: Ÿ How To Win Friends and Influence People … and No Longer Feel Socially Inept If I could create life according to my wishes, I would not suffer. Ÿ How to Become Stinkin’ Rich … and Never Suffer Lack The alleviation of suffering is the underlying premise (gorilla in the room) in virtually every self-help book. Maybe my book How To Suffer should be called: How To Suffer and Thus Not Suffer Suffering Get the dream job, win the lottery, have your kids respect you, find your dream lover (the one that will adore you and never leave), be totally confident 24/7, eat voraciously without gaining weight, pick the next president—hell, be the next president, win the Kentucky Derby, become a Hollywood star or starlet ... the list is endless. Oct./Nov. 2019 www.yogicherald.com 27