MIND MANAGEMENT
observe, everyone is stuck
somewhere irrespective of
the marital status. So the
real question comes why??
Even after having everything
a person is not happy. We
read all spiritual books, we
attend workshops, we listen
to religious discourse to
attain peace or to feel being
loved. Most of the time I
observe people use
spirituality as an escape and
they stay in a ball of
positivity, which is very
dangerous. It is better to live
life fully and to explore until
one reaches a point where
he/she starts realizing that
depending on external life is
suffering and freedom from
but LACK is the reason, and
it is everywhere. Unfulfilled
childhood, individual journey
(despite of having everything),
unfulfilled adult journey.
Ultimately everything comes
to a point where everyone is
yearning for real love. Why
all of us are in search of real
love? Do we understand the
real meaning of love? Dating
sites are emerging like
mushrooms, where anyone
can witness the dissatisfaction,
depression, people are living
in a virtual world, the
situation is very alarming.
Everyone is dissatisfied with
life and in search of
happiness and love.
I don’t want to give any
preaching on real love,
superficial love or the
difference between
attachment or love. Love is
love when a person gives or
receives. What happens
when we don’t feel the love
in the same relationship?
Why do we always try to fix
the quantity and duration of
love? Let's understand what
happens in a relationship of
love. Initially, we are
attracted to a person at a
physical layer. Once the
physical euphoria is gone,
all our emotions get
surfaced and we start
exploiting the relationship
for our own emotional need
and we call it so-called
unconditional love. Only our
awareness and acceptance
of the situation and to the
person can bring a lot of
difference in a relationship.
It is applicable to each one
of us in order to live a
fulfilled and contented life. I
have witnessed unmarried
people who are in search of
companionship or a loving
partner, getting frustrated
and perceiving the world
around them full of Happily
married people. At the same
time married people
perceive unmarried people
to be very fortunate and
untrapped but if we closely
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Listen to your heart,
not to the conditioning
of society. Society is
not going to give you
the happiness.