YH March 2019 | Page 70

TRAVEL Q Why did you create a day of silence on the retreats? Q Who are the kind of people who come on a retreat with 180 Retreats? A We bring an international crowd. This year’s retreat is represented with participants from four different countries so far. Our online program represented ten countries. The staff at 180 Retreats spans across three countries! People who come for our retreats are often at a turning point in their lives or wanting to make a “180” change. Sometimes it’s in their career or where they live, or an important relationship has changed or is changing. Many people who come on our retreats are looking to break cycles in their lives that don’t work. They are adventurous while also seeking peace of mind that isn’t really found through most travel. Oftentimes travel can be a distraction from what isn’t working in life. At 180, our programs take you on a journey in the most beautiful destinations, but first and foremost, that journey is within each of us. In terms of age, the average is in the 30s, but we’ve had participants from age 21 into their 60s. It’s amazing to see how well we can relate with each other, even across decades of differences. 68 www.yogicherald.com March 2019 Q How much does Trekking & Transformation: Everest Base Camp Retreat cost? A The Everest trip is $4,350 which includes almost all expenses including lodging, most meals, programming, airfare and a private helicopter within Nepal. What it doesn’t include is international airfare, your travel insurance and any personal expenses. All participants receive a digital care package, “Everest Within,” before and after the retreat to support the journey. This includes hours of meditation audio, journaling prompts and worksheets, pranayama videos and fitness suggestions. A Researchers say that we have the same 50,000 - 70,000 thoughts swirling in our heads each day. I surmise that because of the constant distractions we encounter, particularly from social pressures to connect or in trying to please others, we never get to sort through the thoughts. I think this is part of the reason why they recycle themselves day after day. I think we lose ground from ourselves when we try to be something for another, not realizing that our own inner compass is the most relevant one to follow. In silence, which means refraining from engaging with others in any way, including eye contact, there becomes a place of resting within the self. You have the freedom to be exactly as you are. If ever you might go out trying to be something that you’re not, it’s an exhausting way to be. Time in silence around others in silence, I’ve found, can recalibrate us. We get to be who we are without validating it, expecting validation, needing to give validation. It’s just pure. On the Annapurna retreat, we planned to do this practice for half a day. After 15 minutes, one participant had felt so deeply that she was in tears of joy. At the half-day point, I privately polled the group to learn that 100% of them wanted to continue the day in silence. None of them had practiced silence before and all of them asked for more! It’s powerful!