Writers Tricks of the Trade Vol. 5, Issue 4 | Page 14

PRESS “CONTROL” THEN CLICK “BUY” TO PURCHASE THE BOOK MY SOLUTION TO THE MEMOIR FRED RAYWORTH Sometimes it seems like half the writers I meet tell me “I’m writing a memoir” when I ask what they write. Autobiographies, tell-alls, life-stories, they’re all the same. You want to write about your life and you’re betting that others will be interested enough to pay good money to read about it. MOTIVATIONS This can be a sticky subject but it boils down to several things. One of them is ego (or vanity). We want to satisfy our ego by writing about ourselves and wait for the praise to roll in when others wow over what a great life we’ve had. Sure, it’s nice when others recognize that you’ve done something interesting that they haven’t. However, what if it isn’t all that interesting? What if nobody can relate? What if a lot of other people have done the same thing? So much for the ego. We do it for altruistic reasons, because we think we have something interesting or compelling to tell. We’ve done something that’s truly unique. There’s a life-lesson in what we’ve done that can help others. We may have survived some life struggle and that struggle may help others through their challenges. Our story is something worthwhile to society. We do it for the humor, just because we have some goofy stories that might be interesting to others, but we don’t know unless we throw them out there. Plain and simple. FRED RAYWORTH A MAN OF MANY TALENTS VISIT FRED’S OWN BLOG HTTP://FREDRAYWORTH.C OM We do it for a family legacy. Family history is important to a lot of people. Generations may want to know what grandma or grandpa did back in the day. A memoir is a great way to leave them a legacy. If a few bucks can be made from it, why not? REALITIES To generalize, everyone is doing a memoir. As many times as I hear that in conversation, something like fifty percent of the time, I can comfortably say that without being too far off the mark. What does this mean? Ninety percent of them will never make it to the shelf at the bookstore. Don’t take my word for it. Go to your favorite local bookseller and take a look. See who’s represented. Recognize those names? Most of them are recognizable celebrities, good and bad. WRITERS’ TRICKS OF THE TRADE Cont’d… PAGE 3 JULY-AUGUST 2015