Women's Elevation Magazine May 2015 - Page 32

K. Frison: Yes! I retweeted that! (laughs) J. Tyler: Yes! Remove all of those people who don’t have my best interest at heart. My former first lady at my old church, she actually taught me that. Dr. DeeDee Freeman. When I would pray that prayer, God immediately would begin to start exposing. And a lot of times, when He exposes, where we mess up is- as women, we rationalize! We don’t want to believe what it is that He is showing us! God showed me from Day 1 that this was not supposed to be the man for me but I began to rationalize it because I just had that desire for marriage- over God’s Will. So much so, that I ended up going to premarital counseling with this man. Thankfully, I woke up and I broke up with him- in premarital counseling. We did not go down the aisle. That was one of the best decisions I’ve made in my life because I never would have met the man that God had for me, [my husband, Jeff] a few years later. I didn’t get married until 2011 but in 2007, I was trying to “make” that my season because all of my