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Joanne Neweduk Director & Community Leader Choosing Fabulous I was first introduced to Fabulous@50, in the spring of 2014. I was instantly drawn to the concept of a community of women aspiring to feel Fabulous at 50 and beyond. Although the brand name was new to me, the process was not. As it happened, I had been choosing to live my life FABULOUSLY for several years. In 2008, a major life event rocked me to my core and sent all I held dear into question. At the time, it felt as if my worst fears had come true. In retrospect, I now see it as a blessing and the catalyst to truly embracing a life of Fabulous. Bit by bit, through a sequence of events, friendships, workshops, and amazing opportunities, I shed my ‘old habits’ of fear, sadness, aloneness, hurt, embarrassment, and the “I must be strong for everyone else / supermom syndrome.” At this time I had a strength that was both brittle and fragile. Just as we clear our closets of old clothes that no longer suit us, we must take a look at our emotional closet and clear that out too. Some long-held behaviours are old and frayed and need to be removed, while others serve a purpose but need to be updated. My new ‘wardrobe’ started with a set of basics: daily gratitude; generosity to self and others; and a celebration of everything in my life. I had a deep sense of who I wanted to be, and I would soon find out how this would manifest. Each day I choose to live my life in a way that feels Fabulous to me. Nothing makes my heart smile more than to help Empower, Educate and Inspire other women to choose FABULOUS in their own way. Women in their mid-life are a powerful community who have much to share with each other and the world. Director & Community Leader JOANNE NEWEDUK Phone 403-850-3574 [email protected] www.fabulousat50.com https://www.facebook.com/Fabulousat50Calgary/ (Business Page: Fabulous at 50 Calgary) https://www.facebook.com/groups/1042617292429239/ (group – Fabulous@50 Calgary) 59 ogr To each woman the meaning of Fabulous will vary. For me it means: • Knowing joy as my most comfortable state of being. • Having the courage to return to university to reclaim my RN status, an arduous, two-year journey filled with incredible rewards. I increased my confidence; renewed my love of learning; was blessed with the support of family and friends cheering me on. • Having opened my heart to co-create a relationship built on mutual love, respect, and support. • Feeling my heart fill with joy as I watch my children grow into amazing, unique individuals, knowing I’ve had a part in their growth and them in mine. • Learning to generously give and to graciously receive. • Not holding back on my dreams; indeed, it means to dream.