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DEAR TEACHER – by Peggy Gisler and Marge Eberts Helping all parents make their children’s educational experience as successful as possible The Road to Having Children Succeed in Math Q uestion: Being good at mathematics is such an important life skill. What can I do to help my young children have success in math? — Very Curious Answer: Believe it or not, there is one major thing that parents can do to put their children on the road to success in math. It is your attitude toward math. It must be a positive one that promotes a “can do” attitude. Your young children will then more than likely have the same attitude. You must avoid saying that you hated math in school and could never handle math, as your children will also absorb this negative attitude. And your positive attitude must remain evident as your children progress through school. Once your children are in school, you should praise your children — not for their talent in doing math but for their efforts, especially in using strate- gies to solve problems. This will encour- age them to try hard. With effort, most children can master mathematics. While it is true that students learn math at school, it should also be part of your life at home. Before your children get to kindergarten, help them learn to count. They can count shoes, socks and books. This is real-world mathematics. They can also sing counting songs with you as well as play games that require them to count a few spaces in order to move around a game board. Once your children are in elemen- tary school, help your children develop instant recall (three seconds or less) of basic addition, subtraction, multiplica- tion and division facts. Oral practice is just as effective as flashcards. Games 34 WNY Family November 2018 and apps can provide solid practice, too. Finally, talk about and show them how math is used in our daily lives. And remember that it is practice, practice, practice that supports success in math. So, support and encourage their efforts to do their math homework. School Locker Searches Are Permissible Question: Our school searches for drugs in lockers using dogs. Do they have the right to do this and other searches? — Concerned Parents Answer: As long as a school of- ficial has “reasonable suspicion” that a student has broken a school rule or law, they can search a student or his or her belongings. School officials have more freedom to search a student than a police officer who needs probable cause or a search warrant in order to search you or your belongings. The use of trained dogs to sniff out drugs in students’ lockers definitely rais- es a threat to a student’s fourth amend- ment guarantee against unreasonable searches and seizures. However, schools look at lockers as school property. Courts have generally allowed dogs in searches of school property, like lock- ers, if students are given advance notice and allowed to be there. Locker searches cannot be performed in an arbitrary or discriminatory manner. Schools can do other searches. For example, urine test for drugs can be given to students who are participating in extra-curricular activities. Also, many schools are now using breathalyzer tests before school dances. However, drug or alcohol testing outside of voluntary ex- tra-curricular activities could be a viola- tion of their rights. Science Fair Projects – the Roles of Children & Parents Question: My elementary school child has to do a science fair project. I have been looking online for guidance along with project ideas. What are some of the best of the many websites that will help me? — Confused Answer: First of all, parents need to realize that it is the child who has been assigned the project. So, parents should limit their participation to the role that the teacher has assigned to them. Unfor- tunately, parents may need to provide considerable guidance if a teacher has not prescribed definite steps to be fol- lowed by their students. One of the most difficult aspects of science fairs is for a child to select an ap- propriate project. Parents can give input that will help a child select a project that he or she is fully capable of doing. They should also stress the importance of find- ing a project the child finds to be interest- ing. Doing these two things can lead to a child successfully completing a project. Some children can devise their own projects. Many rely on looking at projects others have done. There are definitely plenty of websites devoted to science fair projects as well as apps, and don’t forget about books describing sci- ence fair projects. Here are some web- sites to get your child started: • www.all-science-fair-projects.com • www.sciencebob.com • www.sciencebuddies.org Besides providing an abundance of project ideas, these websites offer help- ful advice to parents as well as scientific resources. You can also search for sci- ence fair project apps on your phones and tablets. However, you need to be aware that many apps are not truly free but require in-app purchases. Finally, for a project to be success- ful, it is essential that children under- stand the scientific principle that is key to their experiment. Parents should ask their children to explain the principle in their own words. Parents should send questions and com- ments to dearteacher@dearteacher. com or to the Dear Teacher website.