WNY Family Magazine March 2019 | Page 8

SPRING Into Creativity Your Daily Creative Practice: T oday is Mon- day and my fam- ily is bouncing into the week rested, happy, and healthy despite all of our weekday schedules being full to the brim, and not to mention that it’s flu season. I attribute the success of our weekend to down time and lots of it. I spent time here and there arranging flowers, working on my col- lage journal, and decorating. My husband wrote his Morning Pages, strummed his guitar, and read an entertaining book. Our daugh- ter sang her way through the weekend, when she wasn’t drawing, arranging her clothes and makeup, or decorating her room. When we weren’t resting, we were productive. In fact, I cannot believe how many household chores got done with- out fuss or muss. The fact is, when you take time to rest and relax, you automati- cally become more happily productive. Ask most Americans if they would like to be more creative and they will say, “Yes, absolutely.”   Then ask them if they would like to spend time being creative every day and they will tell you they don’t have the time to spare for such things. And right there is the crux of our national creative conundrum. The media tells us repeatedly that the future of our country — and possibly even the future of our world — relies on our ability to take a creative approach to life and all of the challenges that come with it. But most of us can’t — or won’t — even set aside 30 minutes a day for doing something that relieves our stress and brings a smile to our faces today. Decades ago, President John Ken- nedy asked Americans, “Ask not what your country can do for you, ask what you can do for your country.” But ask most Americans what they can do for our 8 WNY Family March 2019 you can address in a straight- forward manner within the next 24 hours. All you have to do is set aside thirty minutes today and spend it doing something creative that you enjoy. This should be easy, right? A Tool For Thriving Parents & Families — by Christina Katz country and their answers will be rote because so many adults get trapped in a vicious cycle of just making it through the day, week, and year instead of feel- ing like each of us is here for a reason. When I am presenting workshops to creative types, I like to remind everyone in the room that their physical body is merely a door. And on the other side of that door is an enormous stream of po- tential that is ready to pour out, if they would only find the courage to open the door. I applaud anyone pursuing any part of any dream they have, because we live in a world with so much cynicism, where so much human potential is never even attempted. Don’t believe me? Just check out the comments section after any posts on an online news outlet for a sample of the excuses that people have for staying stuck and miserable. Being proactive about our potential is not as popular as it should be. No mat- ter how many best-selling authors tell us that actualizing our potential is our most important job as individuals, resistance to what we long for is a serious prob- lem for Americans, and an even trickier task for busy parents. Luckily it is one But why should you bother to make time for yourself when you have so many other, mostly more challenging, things on your to-do lists? I’ve rounded up ten reasons every member of your family needs to have a daily creative practice in addition to the fact that that your inspired participation is required to sustain our planet and all the folks who inhabit it, including your children and their future children. So don’t just sit there and take a break because you are so exhausted from the frenetic pace of daily life. Do something creative right now and every day going forward. Watch your worries slip away, and your creativity kick in, and your family sit up and take notice. Your family can thrive more than you ever thought possible, but it all starts and ends with you, and the choices you make every single day. 10 Reasons To Start A Daily Creative Practice Today 1) To find deeper meaning in the life you are already living. 2) To stop living in the past or the future and to start living in the moment. 3) To give yourself thirty minutes of per- sonal satisfaction every day because you deserve it. 4) To set a good example for your spouse and children to be more expressive and engaged. 5) To remind yourself of the importance of expressing yourself because you have so much to offer. 6) To stay current with your feelings and needs because no one is keeping track of them for you.