WNY Family Magazine January 2019 | Page 42

DEAR TEACHER – by Peggy Gisler and Marge Eberts Helping all parents make their children’s educational experience as successful as possible Choosing between a Public School and a Charter School Q uestion: I have a choice. I can send my child to the close-by elementary school, which is considered a good school, or a charter school. What do I need to know to make the best decision? — Uncertain Answer: Before making any deci- sion about which school is best for your child, you need to find out as much as you can about each of these schools. Either could be a good choice for your child. Be sure to investigate students’ performance on state tests, the curricu- lum, extracurricular activities, and each school’s philosophy. Visit both schools to see what each environment is like. You should realize that charter schools are public schools that operate with freedom from many of the regu- lations that apply to traditional public schools. These schools are often estab- lished to realize a particular educational vision, which you might want for your child. They might offer high academic standards, small class size, innovative approaches or an appealing educational phi- losophy. Some serve special populations of students. You can learn more about the char- ter-school movement by visiting www.charterschoolcenter.org. Once you are well ac- quainted with what each school is like, think about how your child is likely to do in each en- 42 WNY Family January 2019 vironment. Make a list of the pros and cons for each school. Then select the school that overall best matches your child’s needs. Remember that this is not a one-year decision. You are deciding where your child is likely to spend sev- eral years. Things to Consider when Dyslexia Runs in a Family Question: My husband struggled mightily with dyslexia in school and still isn’t too fond of reading. Is it possible to discover if one of our young children is following in his footsteps? — Curious Answer: There is some evidence that the children of parents who are dys- lexic are more likely to also be dyslexic. Since you know that dyslexia runs in your husband’s family, you do need to watch for early warning signs. Dyslexia can be identified as early as pre-K. And the ear- lier it is identified, the greater the likeli- hood of your child’s success in school. Please remember that having some of the signs of dyslexia does not mean your children will be dyslexic. Howev- er, if you think they might, get help as early as you can from people (doctors, psychologists, teachers, child-care pro- viders) who know your child. You also need to become as famil- iar as you can with dyslexia. Visit the websites of the International Dyslexia Association, the National Center for Learning Disabilities and the Learning Disabilities Association of America. You might also want to read Overcom- ing Dyslexia by Sally Shaywitz. She lays out what parents can do to help their children, year by year, grade by grade, and step by step. Here are some early warning signs of dyslexia: When did your children start talking? Most children will begin to say words by their first birthday. Then, by the time they are 2, they should be us- ing phrases. Plus, 4-year-olds should be able to repeat nursery rhymes. And by the time your child is ready for kinder- garten, he or she should be able to tell if two words such as “fair” and “hair” rhyme. Once your children were speak- ing, how did they pronounce words? By 5 or 6 most children will not have any problems saying words correctly. On the other hand, children who are still leav- ing off beginning sounds such as say- ing “potamus” for “hippopotamus” are showing another possible early sign of dyslexia. Some Techniques for Reducing Test Anxiety Question: My daughter gets anx- ious before big tests. Are there any good ways to psych her up so she will be in a position to do well on these tests? — Want to Help Answer: In his new book Psyched Up: How the Science of Mental Preparation Can Help You Succeed, Daniel Mc- Ginn gives some solid sugges- tions and five techniques that parents can use to put children in the right mind-set before tests and competitive events.