WNY Family Magazine January 2019 | Page 32

FAMILY TRAVEL — by Deborah Williams the orchestra and Destination Cleve- land, the phone was returned the next day. Nothing was missing. • Lesson learned: Be more mindful and do not try to put something away in the dark. LESSONS T he New Year is traditionally the time for resolutions and in keeping with tradition I am resolving to be more mindful while traveling to avoid losing or misplacing vital items. Certainly my remarkable luck in getting vital items returned can- not continue. My experiences have lessons for all travelers and especially so for families who naturally travel with more stuff. Certainly losing a child is one of the worst possible travel events (I too have had this experience). According to a survey, two percent of travelers con- fessed to losing their own child while on vacation. Fortunately, that same group managed to also relocate their wayward child. Travel can be stressful and it is easy to become distracted. Each time I lose some vital item and get it back, my faith in the goodness of most people is restored. My experience in Cleveland last summer is a prime example. A small 32 WNY Family January 2019 group of us were enjoying the world fa- mous Cleveland Orchestra at a concert at the Blossom Music Center, the or- chestra’s summer venue.  I had a small backpack with my camera along with my iPhone in a case filled with credit cards, my NEXUS card, driver’s license, and some cash. The concert was ending and I decided the phone case would be safer in the backpack, but in the dark the phone did not make it into the pack although I carefully zipped the pack for safety, af- ter thinking I had put phone inside. Of course, I did not discover that the phone was missing until I returned to my hotel and it was too late to call the venue. But an honest person had already turned the phone case in to the Lost and Found. Through the coordi- nation of staff from On two different occasions while staying a few days at a hotel — once in Hershey and the other time in Sanibel — I decided to unpack some items and put them in the empty dresser drawers. I was violating my usual practice and paid the price. I left without the items and ended up calling the hotels and the clothing was mailed home to me. • Lesson learned: Don’t  unpack except on cruise ships and then open every drawer and double check before leaving. Losing or misplacing a passport can be a devastating travel experience. I have had it happen twice. I still do not know what happened the first time my passport went missing. We had just ar- rived at JFK Airport in New York on the way to Jamaica. We had to claim our suitcases and transfer to another ter- minal. At the baggage carousel, I took out my passport case with my passport, tickets and baggage claim check. That was the last time I saw my passport and I have no idea what happened. What followed was a police report at JFK where transit police told me sto- ries of creative criminals who prey on unsuspecting travelers. I was allowed to fly and once I arrived in Jamaica I had to report the loss to the American Embassy. The second time my passport went missing, we were leaving our hotel at an