dren while she eats lunch, enjoys a relaxing shower, or takes
a short nap. When mom is rested, fed, and freshened up, it can
really make her feel ready to take on the rest of the day.
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Show support by offering to pick up the older kids, even if
it’s just for a couple hours. If you are taking your own children
to the park, swing by and pick up hers for the afternoon. This
gets them out of the house and gives mom a break. Driving the
kids to school or activities is also a big help for a family with a
new baby. Time alone with baby may be just what mom needs.
Ask About Her Birth Story
Giving birth is a huge milestone; an experience no mom
will ever forget. Every birth has a story and many times, there
aren’t a lot of chances to tell it. Ask about her birth story and
listen. Becoming a mom is a joyful, stressful, awe inspiring, and
life changing experience. Telling the birth story helps women to
process and embrace this new journey.
Bring A Gift for Mom
Many people bring gifts for the baby, but mom is usually
the one doing all the work. Bring a snack or treat for mom to
enjoy. Other great gifts are ones that pamper mom or make her
feel beautiful and comfortable in her postpartum body. Lotion,
perfume, a new nightgown, or slippers are some good ideas. A
delivery of flowers is another great way to bring cheer and make
mom feel special.
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Families who have newborns generally like to have compa-
ny, especially if they pitch in around the house and with the kids.
However, don’t overstay your welcome. New parents tire easily.
Visit the family, bring a meal, and help out but watch for clues
from mom as to when the family would like some alone time.
Take Her Somewhere
Mom may not be able to drive for a few weeks after birth.
Offer to take her on errands or just out for coffee. Being able
to get out of the house can do wonders for someone’s attitude.
Don’t Give Advice
An important tip for anyone chatting with a new mom is
to listen but don’t give advice unless you are asked. It can be
frustrating and overwhelming to get unsolicited advice from ev-
eryone she bumps into.
It’s important to ask mom what would help her. Would she
prefer to have help with housework? Would she like you to hold
the baby while she gets some things done? Some moms would
prefer to have someone to chat with for a while and some moms
may want to get out of the house for a bit. Offer several options
and see what sounds most appealing to the new mom. Any offer
to help is always appreciated by a family adjusting to having a
new baby in the house.
Sarah Lyons, mom of six, has learned first hand what it is like to
adjust to a new baby in the house. She is so grateful for the family
and friends that helped her as each baby came home and loves to
return the favor to others.
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