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MAY 2017 The Mass Exodus: What We Miss When We Leave Mass Early Have you been to the movies lately? With ticket prices being near $15 per person ($20 for 3D), I have to REALLY want to see a movie before spending that much money! And the concessions - oh my! They sometimes cost more than the ticket! When I go to the movies I make sure to get seated early enough to see every minute of the show. And not only do I stay to the very end, sometimes I even stay after the credits because there are often “bonus scenes!” There’s often a crowd of people leaving at the same time I do, and so there’s a bit of traffic in the parking lot, but I just wait a couple of minutes and it clears up. I’m not going to leave the movie early to “beat” traffic! I want the biggest bang for my buck! I would venture to guess that very few people (if any) leave movies early. But I’ve noticed there are quite a few people who leave Mass early. There are times when we may need to leave early because of illness or other emergency, but these occasions are few to the average family. To many, “go to church” is a line on a to-do list, that can be scratched off immediately after receiving Holy Communion. Sadly, those people are missing out on the “bonus scenes” of Mass. I often observe church-goers genuflecting before entering a pew to sit, a sign of reverence to the presence of Christ in the tabernacle. Yet after receiving Holy Communion, they walk right out of the church doors. It’s as though they got what they came for, like a shopping trip to Wal-Mart, and just “check out!” It seems that some people view the Holy Eucharist as a spiritual vitamin of some sorts that will magically strengthen the soul when consumed! (Some view ashes on Ash Wednesday the same way, but that’s another newsletter article.) Why do people leave early? There are dozens of reasons: I have to beat the traffic. I have things to do. I received Communion, so I’m ‘finished.’ I’ve already been sitting an hour, and that’s long enough. I have to go feed my kids. Here are some things to think about the next time you’re tempted to leave Mass early:  Mass isn’t something we can check off of our to- do lists. We ar e invited to have a loving relationship with God and to grow in faith throughout our entire lives. How can we do this if we cut our time with God short?  When a priest, who by his ordination becomes Christ-like, gives his final blessing at Mass, we are being blessed by God Himself. If J esus wer e standing ready to bless us before leaving Mass, wouldn’t you wait for it?  We get more graces when we stay for the entire Mass. Accor ding to the Catechism, “the fr uits of the sacraments … depend on the disposition of the one who receives them” (CCC 1128). If we rush out of church after communion, chances are our disposition is not such that we are reverentially aware that we are consuming the body, blood, soul and divinity of God himself. It deserves a disposition of great respect, if only because we all need all the grace we can get.  We are missed when we leave Mass early. Maybe the priest or deacon needs to speak with us after Mass, or maybe a neighbor just wants to say hi. Someone always wants to talk to us after Mass. If it isn’t the priest, deacon, or a neighbor, God will always have something to say. Rising movie tickets prices make us want to spend every possible moment watching that movie. Isn’t spending time with Christ, who gave his life for us, worth as much? PAGE 7