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MyTurn by JIM DUCIBELLA ‘I’m just a golfer’ A rare neurological condition can’t keep VSGA member Bob Jordan away from the game he loves 40 But fate, or some divine power if you will, has a way of changing the plans of even the strongest willed person. Jordan says that one day his brothers Paul and Doug told him that they wanted to play golf and invited him to join them, ostensibly to ride and watch. He wouldn’t have done it, but for some reason—he knows not why—he had visited Brambleton Golf Club in Ashburn and saw that they had a SoloRider golf cart. That’s a one-seat car with a 350-degree swivel seat that lifts the driver into the address position. His brothers no longer play the game. Jordan now owns his own SoloRider and used it last year to play about 140 rounds. Eight years ago he started swinging with only his right hand because he lacks core strength and needs his left hand to steady himself. Lord knows it hasn’t slowed him down any. Playing by himself, he gets through 18 holes in an average of slightly more than two hours. “In a lot of ways I’m a better player now than I was then because I don’t hit the ball as far,” he said. “It used to be I could hit it far, a long distance, but good luck finding it sometimes. Now I’m in play, just not as far down the fairway. And my short game is better.” A member of the VSGA’s eClub Alex- andria, Jordan has developed a deeper relationship with Brambleton, serving as the club’s volunteer coordinator. In typical droll humor, he says he got the job because somebody [at a meeting] said, ‘Yeah, he’d be good at it. Everybody else stood up and I was the only one that didn’t stand up, so…” In case you wondered, the self-taught Jordan scored a hole-in-one five years ago at Brambleton. He’d like to say he saw it, but he was looking into the sun on the 125-yard hole. His playing partners, having already moved past the forward V IR GINIA G OLFER | M AR CH/ A PRIL 2018 Bob Jordan, who lost the use of his legs more than two decades ago, golfs using a SoloRider golf cart and even made a hole-in-one five years ago at Brambleton. tee box and towards the green, offered play-by-play. “Looks good … Looks real good … My God, it’s going in!” Jordan asked why he was called for this article, saying, “I’m just a golfer.” Told that his story was inspirational and that not everyone in his situation would want to discuss what happened and its impact, you could practically hear him shrugging his shoulders. “Well, you’ve got to keep getting up, no matter what,” he replied. “Don’t you?” That’s as good a bit of life advice as you’ll ever hear. vsga.org I magine going to bed one night a 35-year-old, robust, athletic father and less than 24 hours later being told by doctors that life as you know it would never be the same again. Bob Jordan doesn’t have to imagine it. He lived it, and continues to live it. March 17 marks the most horrifying of 21st anniversaries for Jordan, who lives in Fairfax. He woke up with a high fever and could barely walk. Embroiled in a divorce and custody battle, he drove himself and his 3-year-old daughter to a hospital. There, he suffered a seizure. He hasn’t walked since. “Transverse Myelitis,” was the doctors’ final diagnosis. It is defined as a neuro- logical condition produced by abnormal inflammation in the spinal cord. Con- sequently, nerve impu lses are blocked. Jordan says that even after two decades there are places in his spine where he has no feeling. Rare? You bet. Just 5 people in a million suffer from it. No one knows for sure what caused it. One doctor told Jordan that stress could have been a contributing factor. The way Jordan describes his life at the time sounds like the makings of a bad country song. “I like to say I married the w rong woman,” he began. “The cat ran away and the dog died. I was working a job I really didn’t like. So stress? Yeah.” Jordan played a lot of golf—and to a sin- gle-digit handicap—before the Transverse Myelitis, walking, always walking, play- ing through groups of slowpokes riding in carts. Despite his physical limitations, he plays a lot of golf now—and to a 14 handicap. After the diagnosis he made up his mind that he’d never play again because he’d never be able to play to the same level as before.