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(continued from page nine) Technological Evolutions an Industry, Game-Changer spent on the course and not in the office. Cheating, it should go without saying, has the greatest negative impact. “I don’t care what the business deal is, you don’t want to be around a cheater,” Butowsky says. “Do you say something? Of course not. You can forgive, but you don’t forget.” There really isn’t any upside to doing it, and if it happens, it could seed the other person’s mind with negative feelings. “You don’t want to be doing things on the golf course that might raise questions,” Butowsky says. “I’ve seen people drink five or six beers on the golf course while they’re trying to do business. People don’t want to do business with people who drink too much. Even if one person is drinking too much, you still shouldn’t drink, too. Your goal is to do business with somebody. You don’t want someone questioning in their head how much you drink, when you drink and why you’re drinking. “Then it leads to more questions like, ‘Do I want them managing money or handling business affairs?’ ” Storer offers an addendum. “Be careful smoking cigars on the golf course, too,” he says. “I’ve seen it so many times, ‘Hey let’s have a cigar.’ It’s simply about having common sense and business sense. What if you don’t smoke? You have to always be thinking, too, what’s important to your client.” Friendly or small stakes betting is acceptable, just as long as it doesn’t get out of hand or become too competitive. That could be taken as being overly-aggressive and downright annoying. “I could care less if I win or lose on the golf course,” Butowsky says. “In business I have a different personality, especially if you’re playing golf for business and not competition. You can kind of look like a fool. None of us are playing on the PGA T our.” Butowsky added one caveat: Being too good might send mixed messages to a potential client, the perception being that an excellent golf game may translate into too much time w w w. v s g a . o r g WHEN TO TALK BUSINESS When’s the right time to bring up business? Some experts suggest waiting at least a few holes to broach the subject, while other critics say save it for later during the post-round drinks and snacks. Storer believes it’s all about understanding personality styles. After all, the purpose of a golf outing is to get to know one another. Start with innocuous conversation. Build rapport. Butowsky agrees that knowing a business partner’s tendencies trumps all. Some may be alpha personalities while others present a vibe that says, ‘Not now.’ Just don’t be predictable or force such talk. It’s all about being able to read the c Օ̰