UF Housing Alumni Magazine Fall 2016 | Page 24

Where are Housing Alumni Now? JOHN DONALDSON photos provided by JOHN DONALDSON After returning from the Marine Corps at the beginning of Operation Desert Storm in 1991, I enrolled at UF, and at the age of 23, I lived as a non-traditional freshman in Tolbert Hall. A semester later, I moved to Beaty Towers. Transitioning from the military to campus life was difficult, and I often felt isolated from the student population. It was not long before I found myself in trouble. Interestingly, Daisy Waryold, the wise housing judicial professional at the time, aligned my sanction with her desired outcome and instructed me to “get involved.” Shortly after that, I became a front desk assistant at Beaty Towers, and before the semester was over, I accepted a position as a resident assistant (RA) in Jennings Hall for the following term. I had large shoes to fill as my brother was already an RA in the New Facility, now named Keys Residential Complex, and his legacy was honored with a grill named after him—The William H. Donaldson Grill. Go see it sometime; it is still grilling to this day. several nights. Christine Coons was my hall director, and it was during those late-night evacuations that we had the opportunity to bond in the presence of unpleasant circumstances. Christine was an awesome supervisor. Working in residence life was my fraternity, only better. There were no dues, no hazing, and membership included all genders, races, ethnicities, and personalities. I took a small hiatus in my RA career when I left UF to attend the University of Colorado for a semester. It did not take me long to realize that I needed to return. If it were not for Steve Logan, my Assistant Director of Housing (ADH), who offered me another RA job at Broward Hall, the rest of my RA experience would never have been written—and the best was yet to come. Upon my return, during RA training in Flavet Field, I met my wife of 21 years, Jacki. She worked as a judicial grad assistant at the time. I wined and dined her at the Purple Porpoise and Leo’s, and now, all these years later, we have two sons, ages 15 and 13. Unfortunately, the Purple Porpoise is long gone, and Leo’s is on its way out, but my memories of Housing and the relationships I developed are everlasting. Donaldson's brother was also an RA in the New Facility, now named the Keys Residential Complex. Throughout my tenure as an RA, I served in Jennings Hall, Broward Hall, and my swan song, Yulee Hall. My duties included conducting educational programs, constructing bulletin boards, and providing social programs. Do not let that textbook description fool you; my experience was full of surprises and learning opportunities not outlined in RA training. I currently work at UF Health as the Assistant Director of Academic Support Services, not far from the residence halls where I worked during my undergraduate years. My first RA duty station was in Jennings Hall. The RA I replaced was allegedly pennied into his room by his residents, then later trapped in his room by a soda machine parked in front of his door. Perhaps my military training would snap the students into shape. Although I did not experience any undesired containment, one day I did notice a piece of paper taped to the lounge door window. What could be happening inside? I walked in to find my residents celebrating a birthday, and they had invited a special guest—a stripper. As chance would have it, the stripper was my brother’s high school prom date from Orlando back in the 80s. I also have fond memories Donaldson pictured wearing a Marine shirt served in of negative events. We encountered a series of bomb the Corps before enrolling at UF in 1991. threats in which the entire building was evacuated for 24 HRE ALUMNI MAGAZINE | UF STUDENT AFFAIRS