UF Housing Alumni Magazine Fall 2016 | Page 13

The students want to be given the resources and opportunities to thrive at the University of Florida and gain as much as they can from the experience, as the patients want the same opportunity to be a part of a community as children that their epilepsy has kept them from. Everyone wants to belong to something, whether that is on the floor of his or her residence hall or the playground of their school. "Everyone wants to belong to something, whether that is on the floor of his residence hall or the playground of their school." Chris said that working for Residence Life and Education has taught him a number of skills. While the desired outcomes of both groups are very different, the same care goes into helping each. There are a number of skills that working for the Department of Housing Residence Life and Education has taught me. Learning how to listen, how to be patient, to look at the big picture, and to think outside the box while providing quality care and service. Being able to listen to a student and understand their needs while also providing them with the resources and guidance to be successful is a rewarding experience when you can make that connection and see them succeed. It’s the students that we do it all for. Working with a patient is not so different – you listen to them and work hard to understand what they are going through so that you can utilize all available resources to help them recover and hopefully get closer to a normal lifestyle that they, and their families, desperately desire. Seeing a child benefit from the care and work that goes into the research you perform is one of the greatest accomplishments anybody working in medicine can ask for. "It's the dedication and desire to see others succeed that makes wearing both 'hats' so important." - Chris Anderson Whether you’re working in Student Affairs or in medicine, one thing is consistent about both, and that is the fields are always changing. A student’s general needs and expectations change year to year with each passing generation, just as the available research and treatment options for patients also continuously change. With both, it is important to also be adaptable and willing to make your own adjustments to keep pace. It is easy to stay grounded and stick with what has worked in the past, but if the goal is to help those succeed and make strides towards personal improvement, then trying new techniques or practices becomes a necessity. It’s the dedication and desire to see others succeed that makes wearing both ‘hats’ so important and so valuable to both patients and students. Sometimes you have to have those tough conversations with a student, or utilize new programming and counseling techniques to make a connection. The same goes for medicine, while it is easy to continue what has worked in the past, every patient is different and has specific needs. Being willing to explore new treatment options, even those as controversial as medical marijuana for children, is what is needed to keep the field moving forward and to keep helping those so desperately in need. Whether you’re in the lounge of college residence hall or the clinical room of a hospital, the goal is the same: doing what it takes and putting in the care and effort to help improve the quality of life for those in your community. Sometimes wearing more than one hat can be tricky and look funny, but a lot of times you find that one just isn’t enough for the occasion. It is this that both working with students and with patients has taught me, and my experience with both has been a valuable and prized experience. DISSERTATION PRESENTATION Parents play an especially unique part in each as well. Parents of our incoming students are both excited and nervous. They are seeing their son or daughter begin a new chapter of their life and are hopeful that they will succeed and continue to grow from their experiences. Parents of the patients in our study aren’t too different – they too are nervous and excited for the potential that this new and unexplored treatment option could provide their child with an opportunity they otherwise wouldn’t have. HRE ALUMNI MAGAZINE | UF STUDENT AFFAIRS 13