TREND Fall 2016 | Page 16

Meet the Advocate Anna Thorsen is known as a champion for children, and a champion for public schools. Last year, during the legislative session, she became a tireless advocate to help pass much needed Dyslexia Legislation. She was recently appointed to serve on the Dyslexia Council for the state of Tennessee by Commissioner of Education Candice McQueen. The Journey from Diagnosis to Advocacy I began my work career as a corporate attorney at a big Nashville law firm. Very soon after I began work, I began to really struggle. I had grown up never being a good speller and being teased about it. In college and law school I was graded down for my poor spelling on the essays and exams I wrote. Early on in my life, I developed a sharp wit and keen sense of humor to cover my shame, but it never went away. As an attorney, I spent my days reading, writing and revising documents that were 50 or more pages long and legally binding. It was really hard. I got things wrong. I mixed things up. It was not until the attorney in the office next to be gave me some tough-love that I realized that I have a learning disability. I will never forget it. I was 27 years old and I been practicing for about 3 years. I was under a huge deadline on a big merger deal and I got stuck on the word “with.” I think I was spelling it “w-h-i-t-h-e”. Spell check couldn’t recognize it and I was panicked under my looming deadline. I ran to the next office over and in a rushed voice asked “how do you spell ‘with’”? She looked up at me and said “you do know you’re dyslexic, right?” I thought she was just being mean, but as I got home that night, I began thinking about it. The next day I called to get tested. Turns out she was right, I had dyslexia. Once I was diagnosed, I quickly realized that I had picked a terrible profession for my skill set. I knew that I needed to get out of the law. aWhen I got pregnant with my first daughter, I thought it was my ticket to exit gracefully. I was so excited for my life as a new mom. Then, tragedy struck when my first born, Madeline, died. I quit work and took time to grieve. I was also having significant medical issues at the time and knew that if I wanted to get pregnant again, my window was short. Seventeen months later, Ava was born - typical and healthy. My life took another devastating turn another 16 months later when Clara was born. Right after birth, she crashed hard and was in the hospital for 3 months fighting for her life. It was absolute hell. Turned out, she shares a rare medical conditions with her oldest sister, B6 Dependent Epilepsy. My life had suffered several huge blows and I was left unmoored in my own life for a couple of years. I suffered so much grief and was stricken with Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome from Madeline’s death and all the times in the hospital when Clara would code and have to be resuscitated, and times she would have seizures and we would race her to the hospital in the back of an ambulance. Life was stressful for those years. I had two toddlers at home, one of whom was very medically fragile and prone to seizures. What helped me the most was connecting with other moms who had suffered like me. In those dark days of my life, I became painfully and vividly aware of what it means to be a mother and how hard it is. The loss. The pain. The heartbreak. I knew I needed help and I needed connection to other women who had been through what I had been through. When I was emotionally able, when Clara was about 2 years old, I began to dip my toe into advocacy. I was invited to be on the Family Advisory Council at Vanderbilt Children’s Hospital. We helped change policies to make the hospital to improve families’ experiences. It was hard working in the place that held so many of my PTSD triggers, but I did it somehow. Once my 3-year term there ended, I searched for a new cause to take up. A natural fit for me seemed to be the Epilepsy Foundation of Middle Tennessee. I worked there for a year as an Education Coordinator getting out into the community talking to schools, students and organizations about Epilepsy. I really enjoyed the work, but for several reasons, I knew I needed to move on. By this point, both my girls had started elementary school and I naturally was drawn to that community. I gave up my work at the Epilepsy Foundation and jumped all-in to our school PTO. I served there as Fundraiser and eventually PTO President for two years. I loved supporting teachers and students and building community to help get families engaged in our schools. During my time serving our school as PTO president, Clara was diagnosed with dyslexia. Although I love our school dearly, our journey to get the school and the district to recognize her diagnosis was not an easy one. continued on next page