ner that is attractive and acknowl-
edges basic human behaviour. Why do you think London is a
good place to fall in love?
I know you’ve worked with
many men who are nervous
about meeting women, can
you give me some examples
of times when you’ve helped
a client meet someone and
it’s turned into a long term re-
lationship/ marriage? Love takes all shapes, and London
has all places. It’s got cool cosmo-
politan parts, fancy parts, history,
greenery, and infinite places to ex-
plore with new and exciting spots
popping up constantly.
He was engaged to the woman he
met on that show six months later.
A year later, they were married.
thinking about talking to a wom-
an in a club that can bolster your
confidence. Get in shape. Take up a
hobby and make yourself more in-
teresting. Tackle something you’ve
been putting off. It doesn’t in all
honesty matter if you get there, al-
though it’s a massive kick if you do.
The investment alone, the knowl-
edge that you are doing everything
in your power to better yourself,
and that you are worth that time,
will mean that you can go up to a
woman with the full knowledge
that she has several good reasons
to talk to you.
In London, that confidence will
count for a hell of a lot, whatever
your level of success.
On your website, you state
you once found it difficult to
speak to women.
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What happened to help
boost your confidence?
I just woke up one day and I had it.
I bet you read that and immediate-
ly thought ‘horseshit’. Because it is.
Look, no one is born with confi-
dence. It’s not some untouchable
quality. It’s a process, and it’s made
of positive references from ben-
eficial and impactful encounters.
When you have a friendly con-
versation with someone, you feel
good about it, right? And you car-
ry that knowledge over to the next
encounter.
I stopped hanging out with a
group of friends who weren’t par-
ticularly healthy for my mindset. I
studied people’s behaviour – a lot.
I also went out and failed – a hell
of a lot. I learnt what I did wrong
in each encounter, went back, and
reattempted.
If you were working with
someone new who is look-
ing to meet someone in Lon-
don, where would be the first
place you would take them?
The great thing about London in
this context is its vastness – you
can really try out a completely dif-
ferent scene by jumping on the
Tube for half an hour.
There’s literally thousands of plac-
es to go.
What type of people do you
normally work with?
Men of all ages, nationali