TOUCH vol. 3 | Page 10

KIDS AND TOUCH It’s an unfortunate reality that we live and are brought up in a touch-deprived society. More and more, parents are losing the skill of compassionate touch and aren’t passing that value onto their children. Without going into too much detail, studies in the early 1900’s proved that without a doubt, compassionate touch is absolutely essential for survival past infancy. The studies were performed in orphanages and produced chilling results, yet they highlighted that at least equivalent in importance to food and water, another key to living and thriving is physical contact with another human. Numerous researchers have since described the plethora of biochemical processes that take place when we make contact with another – highlighting the benefits within the realms of individual By Drew Hume D E P R I VAT I O N hormones and other chemical compounds. They’ve also extrapolated these results to human behaviors, and regular touch is associated with improved mood and feelings of connection with others, our empathetic response and interpersonal skills, our degree of cooperation, our mental clarity and focus, our overall, along with many more observable influences on our day-to-day living. Don’t we want all this for our kids? Don’t we want them to grow up in a positive-touch environment, which aids in their communication skills and helps them feel connected to their family, peers and the world at large? In our present lifestyles and societies we often see inappropriate touch becoming more prevalent. This