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SEQ CHAPTER 7 Connections By Jarrett Maier How do you make connections? Anyone who has ever walked Those connections you make really Not the type that further your career in a professional sense. The connections with everyday people. The important relation- ships that occur in the small moments of life between two strangers. We all do it and never pause to realize why, or how, that moment happened. It is not something that can be fully appreciated in a cyber envi- ronment. 42nd St. in Manhattan and ignored a flyer knows how hard it can be to get people to show interest. I thought it would be a daunt- ing task, after all it never used to be easy. I was pleasantly surprised. As two of us hung out on the sidewalk, passing out our infor- mation, people started loosening up. They went from wary to conversational. It actu- ally got to a point where some were reach- ing out to us like “ Don’t I get one?” Technology is creeping They thought they were missing out on something. into every corner of society and seemingly dividing us. Claiming to unite us with so many “friends” and yet leaving us feeling so isolated. We fight and scrape for likes, shares and retweets, just hoping we can get enough on line traction to make a dent. Are you really connecting with your audi- ence and, more importantly, is your audi- ence engaged? In the musical world, it may be time to reconnect with some of the time tested tools for reaching out to the people. Perhaps amongst all the scrolling, our connections are being lost. I was recently reminded of how powerful personal interactions can be. My band had a show at a larger venue with some tickets to move. We decided to take it back old school. You, hopefully, know what I mean. Flyers in hand, we hit the pave- ment. Visited the venue about three weeks prior to our show and handed them out to the people entering for another show. Page 30 That was the connection. We created a sense of community with a group of strangers. As brief as the mo- ments may have been, we had to look each other in the eyes and interact. I believe this is far more valuable than any click on a cell phone. It also just might have forced people to step back and think about how seriously we take our music. We all can sit behind a keyboard and promote endlessly. It’s a very useful tool and has opened avenues that could never have been imagined twen- ty years ago. But just maybe it is begin- ning to stifle us. Music is, at it’s best, an emotional connection with a listener and the story you want to tell them. What bet- ter way to do that than in person? We need to show up to perform for people, why not show up to promote to people? do matter. On stage or off, those people are your life blood. Your music is your business. Your business is a brand that needs time to gain ac- ceptance and support. So stay put, weather the storms, swallow your pride on occasion. Make tough choices when you need to. Please, don’t start another band tomorrow and expect anyone to care! the way. Speak with them, not at them. Engage with them, don’t sit back and wait for them to do it for you. If you don’t show them your passion as a person, why should they care about you or your music? Do this everywhere, all the time At your shows. Before and after your sets. While out catching another band play. Hang a poster. Drop a flyer on the bar. Better yet buy a stranger a beer and hand them a flyer. Reach out. Engage. to USE IT! The Lookout Artists you will hear a lot from and who YOU should be paying attention to Raleigh, NC is the landing spot for the most energetic ep release of 2017 from the gritty, female-fronted NIKOL. Total Order Columnist Do you draw any influ- Jarrett Maier has struck ence vocally, from the gold in his find of one of likes of Sarah McLachlan the most complete EP or Tori Amos? My vocal influences releases of the year. Its are mostly styles like Paramore and Evanes- Lead singer takes a few cence, although those artists are very talented moments to answer a as well! couple of questions. What are the differences You bring a range of styles of playing SXSW or Vans to the table. How does Warped tour compared to the song writing process touring the small clubs up work within the band? and down the East coast? I write the lyrics and take it to the studio with It’s definitely a more intimate feeling at local me bring it all to life. Being in the record- SXSW and Vans Warped Tour- both of which a sound in mind and then the producer helps places in comparison to music festivals like ing studio is one of my favorite things ever!! were HUGE goals of mine to play. I hope we will get to play them again. They were both really amazing experiences. I’m so incred- ibly thankful for the opportunities. After almost a year and a half of supporting your lat- est Ep, “White Lies”, what do you have planned for 2018? I am back in the studio recording with Dan Korneff, so hopefully a full-length release, more touring, more music festivals, and just lots of new opportunities to grow! CHECK BACK IN FEBRUARY’S ISSUE FOR MORE ON NIKOL! Nikol Facebook Nikol Website Nikol Twitter Buy White Lies Put the technology away and connect with someone. Jarrett Maier is a columnist for Total Order Magazine and the Songwriter/Bassist for Autoerotica from PA. Page 29