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The Flyer The Thurston & Ixworth Flyer Established 2018 Copy deadlines: May edition: 15/04/19 June edition: 15/05/19 Advertise in the Flyer Tel: 01284 592 491 Established reputation and unrivalled distribution Thurston, Ixworth and Bardwell The Thurston & Ixworth Flyer is part of the Flyer Group established in 1997. We have magazines in Bury St Edmunds, Ipswich, Kesgrave, Martlesham, Woodbridge, Felixstowe, Colchester, Brightlingsea, Sawbridgeworth, Bishop’s Stortford and Saffron Walden. Head offi ce: Flyer House, Bridge Road, Felixstowe IP11 7AA www.fl yeronline.co.uk Contents From the Dean’s Desk I knew it was a conversation I eventually needed to have, but I was dreading it. We came from opposite sides of an argument which affected me personally, and I Joe Hawes feared harsh words when we came face to face. the Church is made up of ordinary human beings, like anywhere else, and we Christians are as prone to take up standpoints against each other as any other organisation. Perhaps even more so, because what we deal in are ultimate questions: Life, death, eternity and the love of God, the dignity of the individual, collective responsibility, creation and our place in it, how human society should order itself: who’s in, and should anyone be out? In the event, it was an encounter of grace and dignity; I experienced something I could relate to and understand. I hope the other party felt the same. Our conversation left me feeling different, and as if I had received a gift. When I feel God has been at work there is a sense of heightened emotion; someone once called it ‘the heart strangely warmed’. I long for reconciliation in the Church, no more divisions, the preparedness to accept each other’s difference with respect and appreciate diversity. Maybe then we would be able to speak with greater authority into a fractured political and social context. We human beings are instinctively tribal; we are more comfortable in the company of those we know think and feel like we do. It takes a risk to encounter the otherness of someone else without hostility or putting up barriers from behind which we can lob grenades of anger and incomprehension. More than enough of that is being seen in the entrenched positions around Brexit, and politicians are rightly deeply concerned about the public loss of confi dence in those who govern us. But the same divisions are evident from protesters in Parliament Square; it seems that none of us are exempt from the temptation to climb into our bunkers. 7 16 ADVERTISING SALES: CUSTOMER SERVICE: NEWS ARTICLES: PRINT AND DELIVERY: If only the Church were immune from this, but of course it isn’t, because We are in the middle of Lent, the season before Easter. Many think of Lent as a time to give up booze and chocolate before a good Easter binge, but I’m more interested in giving up the things which harden the arteries of my soul; things like my prejudices and mistrust of people I don’t understand, the ways I react out of fear and misunderstanding. I long to be able to let go of them, not because I’ve stopped believing passionately in what I hold dear, but because I know instinctively that I can only grow deeper from an open encounter with those who are most unlike me, as I think I did from that meeting I had been dreading. At the cross on Good Friday we can lay down all those burdens we no longer need to carry, and walk away in hope of an Easter bright with forgiveness and renewal. Joe Hawes 18 steve.powell@fl yeronline.co.uk accounts@fl yeronline.co.uk newsdesk@fl yeronline.co.uk jon@fl yerpress.co.uk © The Thurston & Ixworth Flyer 2018. Views and opinions mentioned are not necessarily those of the editor or proprietor and no responsibility will be taken for the accuracy of information contained herein. For further information on advertising in the Flyer, please call 01284 592491 or email: newsdesk@fl yeronline.co.uk Editor: Steve Powell. Sub Editor: Chris Nind. Proprietor: Steve Powell All advert layouts & design are property of The Thurston & Ixworth Flyer. The standard charge for unauthorised reproduction is £350. Printed by FLYER PRESS LTD Tel: 01394 283371 4 TH E FLYER | A PR IL 2019 Pl ease menti on ‘The Fl yer’ when respondi ng to adv e rti s e me nts