THRIVING Melanin Family Magazine September 2018 | Page 51

THE MELANIN MAN MELANIN MAN THOUGHTS HIP-HOP AND THE MELANIN COLLECTIVE YOU ALL IN, OR NAH? By Tamon "The Complete Gentleman" Pearson It's a funny time to be a black man. Right now, we aren't trusted in general. Between #MeToo and #TimesUp, many of us are being seen as the enemy. The silences that women have lived under due to sexual assault and molestation are being broken, and the entire world is shifting. But that's a relatively new issue. For us as black men, the heads of Black families, there are older issues looming above, and the ramifications are just as far- reaching. Recently, photos of model and radio personality London Charles--also known as Deelishis, from Flavor of Love--revealed what appears to be dramatic plastic surgery. She appears lighter in complexion, and her features look more the prototypical light- skinned so-called mixed girl; than the powerfully African-American features that she had on reality television.  SEPTEMBER NOMADIC | 24 2018 • THRIVE | 49