The Wedding Playbook Volume 3 | Page 59

Weddings for under 75 guests are wonderfully open to interpretation, providing a freedom of choice which falls far from the word ‘package’. Whether it’s just the two of you and a mountain top, an exotic island resort or backyard celebration, the options are many and only limited by your imagination. Couples opting for smaller weddings are also looking to plan more of what they truly want. Celebrating with your nearest and dearest without having to compromise on the details can mean a personalised event with less stress - except when it comes to letting someone know they haven’t made the guest list. Hotels and restaurants are now taking a fresh look at what’s possible, offering private dining experiences and intimate ceremony spaces. Other less conventional locations, such as art galleries and converted warehouses, are also new options. Think outside the box and your event may be the first in that space - just be sure the venue has all the necessary approvals to host catered functions. A greater variety of venues to choose from may also mean more flexibility for your wedding date and the opportunity to book out an entire location. Unfortunately, this is one of the downsides of fewer numbers. It can be surprising to find out how many people would love to be part of your wedding, and no matter how gently you try to break the news, someone will always be disappointed. Our best advice? Bite the bullet, be upfront and let them know you never want anyone to feel excluded, but it just isn’t possible to invite everyone you would like. One of the biggest motivations for scaling back the size of your wedding is to create more time. With fewer logistics to manage before and during the wedding, you’ll have plenty of time to enjoy the occasion with friends and family, without the worry of making sure you ‘get around everybody’. The simplest way to find out if an intimate wedding is right for you is to list what is most important to both you and your partner. What are your top priorities? Is it a couture gown, top quality meal, luxurious honeymoon or a nightclub style reception? This will help determine how you want to spend your budget and what kind of atmosphere you would like on the day. If you do decide on an intimate wedding, enjoy the freedom in style, cost and timing it allows!