The Villager Oct. 2013 | Page 22

Page 22 October 2013 Tennis Barking Dogs, Neighbor Con?icts May Be Resolved Through Mediation The summer weather brings people out into their yards and neighborhoods to garden, walk, sit, read and enjoy the air. Imagine yourself out on a back yard deck, surrounded by blooming plants and butterflies. You hear a dog barking in a nearby yard. The neighbors' air conditioning unit kicks on next door. The neighbor across the street starts up a skill saw for a home improvement project. The neighbor boy shows up to mow your lawn. So much for your quiet relaxing moment. You begin to feel irritated, frustrated and angry. Neighbor-to-neighbor conflict can easily arise from situations such as this one. When you find yourself repeatedly irritated by something that involves a neighbor, but you don't know how to approach the conversation with that person, community mediation services can help. Since 1992, Clackamas County has provided help and relief to residents experiencing conflict in their communities and neighborhoods. Mediation is a voluntary and confidential process that is offered to county residents free of charge. The process begins with a third-party mediator talking to each person individually over the phone to hear both sides of the situation. The mediator is either an employee or a professionally trained mediator who volunteers time helping people to resolve their own conflict. Neighbors are assisted in resolving their own conflict without involving an enforcement agency, which can sometimes escalate the situation. Resolution of conflict can occur with the help of the mediator during a series of phone calls between people in conflict. Preferably, mediators encourage people to attend a face-to-face session The Charbonneau Villager Continued from page 6 Men's 7.0: Jack & Austin Berkey defeated Don Patch and Fritz Hostetler in the finals 6-3, 6-3 and Andy Sommer and Brian Staneart defeated Tom Knapp and Rick Springer in the consolation finals 6-4, 4-6, 1-0. Men's 8.0: Lance Berkey & Tom Lonergan defeated Peter Schulte and Jeff Hammonds in the finals 7-6, 6-1 and Cary and Jason Lemeiux defeated Ethan and Austin Berkey in the consolation finals 7-6, 6-1. MEMBER NEWS that brings them together to talk about all issues between them and develop their own agreement that each person signs. This provides a document that will help guide future interactions and restore a friendly and neighborly relationship. Issues that are addressed through community mediation may include noise, animal control, boundary disputes, easement issues, property maintenance, landlord/tenant issues, consumer/ merchant issues and manufactured dwelling park issues. Clackamas County resolution Services also provides mediation services for small claims cases through the courts, youth and family mediation for parent/teen and for adult children and elder care issues and family law services including mediation and parent education classes. To reach a community mediator and discuss service options, call Clackamas County resolution Services at 503-655-8850. Leave a message and an employee or volunteer will return the call. e-mail is available at CCrS@ clackamas.us. visit the website at http://www.clackamas.us/ccrs/ mediation.html. To reach a mediator for family law issues, call 503-655-8415. This article is reprinted with permission of Clackamas County’s Citizen News. Craig Koessler, the Charbonneau Tennis Club tennis professional, was born and raised in Tacoma, Washington as the second oldest of four boys. He attended Henry Foss High School and Pacific Lutheran University (PLu). He played high school tennis and basketball, making the state tournament in both sports twice. His tennis coach at PLu, Mike Benson, was his strongest tennis influence. He wasn't really an ‘X's-and O's guy’ who taught stroke mechanics or in-depth strategy. His strength was his mental and emotional approach to getting the best out of his players, which was strongly grounded in his Christian faith. Craig was a conference and district doubles champion. His team qualified for the National Association of Intercollegiate Atheletes (NAIA) national tournament each year he competed (his highest finish was ninth place). He graduated in 1983 with a degree in communication arts, with an emphasis in print and broadcast journalism. Craig and his brothers started in tennis in the early 70s. Having three brothers spawned a natural competitiveness in all of them. One of the most exciting times of his tennis upbringing was in the mid-70s when American express sponsored the PNW Summer Circuit, and several great pros and college players came to play in his area. In those days, club members housed the players in their homes, and his mother www.charbonneaucountryclub.com Craig Koessler was the housing chairperson for the Tacoma event. Many strong players and interesting personalities stayed with them in those few years, some of whom he still sees at tennis conventions and tournaments to this day! His daughters, Becca and Bella, lettered four years in tennis at Tualatin High School. Both attend the university of Oregon where Becca is a senior, studying psychology and anthropology. Bella is a freshman. Craig played a few PNW open events after college without much success; but when children came along, serious competing was put on the back burner. When they got older, he started to compete more regularly, first in the section, then in some national tournaments. He found good partners who helped him to win two national doubles events and become a finalist in another. He has been an officer on the PNW Board of the u.S. Professional Tennis Assoc. (uSPTA), including holding the office of president for six years. He has taught training courses and conducted exams for those wanting to become certified teaching professionals by the uSPTA. He has been on two uSTA/PNW committees, Schedule and Sanction and Junior Team Tennis. He has taught tennis clinics in several elementary schools as part of the uSTA schools program. He enjoys his other job teaching at the Multnomah Athletic Club, playing golf, spending time with his daughters and learning how to better use a Mac computer.