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Mr. Perfect Does Not Exist!
Today, most of the daters want immediate results af-
ter a date. They want to meet their dream date im-
mediately. They want to fall in love immediately. They
want to like each other immediately. There is hurry in
dating. There is a demand that we must get good date
immediately. This is like interviewing candidates for a
position in your organization. You wish to get the best
candidate as the first candidate and get frustrated if
you don’t get one after interviewing many. That frus-
tration either makes you drop the idea of searching or
you try to fit at least one candidate in the slot. But that
will fail with disastrous results.
Are you doing something similar in dating? Do you
not accept disappointments easily? Do you want your
candy immediately like a child? That can lead to com-
plications. You have to define your requirements and if
you find that your date and you don’t match, you have
to drop him/her. You don’t have to create excuses and
fit him/her with you. That may lead to long-term pain.
Let us be sure. You are looking for a life partner. You
have only one life and you must try and get the best
partner you can to have happiness and satisfaction.
Give dating enough time. Date few people before you
decide about one. Make sure that your head is ruling
you and not heart. Don’t ask for immediate results.
That can be painful over time. M