The Valley Catholic December 11, 2018 | Page 6

6 December 11, 2018 | The Valley Catholic COMMUNITY Give the gift of hope this Christmas Season with your support of Catholic Charities programs GET INVOLVED The Season of Sharing program collects gifts for individuals and families who will have little or nothing under the tree on Christmas morning. GIVE Make your donation have an even greater impact this holiday season with the Sobrato Family Foundation 2 to 1 Challenge Match . SHOP Sign up for AmazonSmile and your holiday shopping benefits Catholic Charities of Santa Clara County. For information, email [email protected] or call (408) 325-5191. CatholicCharitiesSCC.org/Christmas-giving Proud to be the 2018 Silicon Valley Organization’s Nonprofit of the Year 2625 Zanker Road San Jose, CA 95134 • (408) 325-5125 Art work by CORAL after-school student Lien Hong Pham CCSCC_Christmas2018_VC.indd 1 11/20/18 11:44 AM Christmas Medicine By Gregory Kepferle CEO, Catholic Charities of Santa Clara County and President, Charities Housing Development Corporation I have to confess, this year I have had a hard time getting into the Christmas spirit. These days I have felt more like Mr. Scrooge, more ready to say, “Bah Humbug!” than “Merry Christmas!” Maybe you know the feeling. You are running around, feeling stretched, fi ghting traffi c, trying as hard as you can to get your challenging work done while dealing with people fussing -- on top of preparing for the holiday season. Meanwhile the news proclaims con- stant doom and gloom while marketers pitch perky happy holiday themes. The wicked prosper while ordinary people suff er. It sometimes feels like we are being infected by a social virus of short- triggered sensitivity and grumpiness while being expected to be in a holiday mood. Bah Humbug! However, I have found some anti- dotes to the viruses of fear, anger, de- spair, greed, and desire. The medicine is a concoction of prayer, community, and caring. I find that when I take time to pray and meditate – to actually breathe (as my wife reminds me), I can let go of the external noise and focus on the gentle presence of the Spirit. I fi nd when I pay attention to family and friends and colleagues, when I listen, when I am truly present, then I don’t focus on my ego but can receive the joy of companionship and creativity. And perhaps the best medicine of all is when I can see the joy and hope in someone else’s eyes as their lives are transformed by a caring act. My heart is lifted up and my burden is lightened when I witness the dedica- tion and compassion of neighborhood moms who volunteer through Catholic Charities to strengthen their families and their neighborhood. I forget my grumpiness when I watch young scholars study diligently with the help of their Catholic Charities after-school teacher. I sigh with relief when I hear of the safe arrival of a refugee orphan. I release my anxiety when I hear the story of two clients who found aff ord- able housing with each other through Catholic Charities House Sharing pro- gram. And my heart sings with joy as I watch seniors in our Adult Day Care engage in art and music and play in a safe healing place. This is truly the antidote to the “humbug” feeling. This Christmas, you can make a dif- ference in the life of a child, a senior or a family who needs your help. I invite you to be generous this year and give through Catholic Charities to truly change lives for good. Every new and increased gift to Catholic Charities of Santa Clara County is being matched 2:1 by the Sobrato Family Foundation. Take some Christmas medicine. It’s good for the soul. And it’s a blessing for those who need our help. Merry Christmas! For more information please visit, www.CatholicCharitiesSCC.org.