the torch Winter 2014, Issue 4 | Page 9

G.R. White Trust grant supports grieving children of seriously ill adults O l i v i a, Nol a, A l e x a n de r a n d Rowa n Carroll loved spending special time each week with their “Mimi.” The children knew Mimi was sick and in the hospital; however, they did not know how serious her illness was. Their parents, fighting to manage their own grief, were unable to find the right words to share the honest and difficult reality that Mimi was losing her battle with ovarian cancer. They called on the compassionate expertise of Emily Mulkey, a child life specialist at Baylor Health Care System, to help them break the news. “I know you guys know that Mimi is sick, and she’s been trying really hard to get better because she loves spending time with you,” Emily told the children. “But Mimi’s body is tired. The medicine isn’t making her better and the doctors can’t make her better and it’s really sad, but she is going to die from her cancer.” As expected, the children were devastated by the news; however, they spent the next three hours with Emily, crying, laughing and sharing their favorite memories of Mimi. “Emily was the best thing to come