Dare to reach into the darkness, to pull someone into the light. Remember, strong people not only stand up for themselves, they stand up for others as well. BE STRONG You are not your current situation and circumstances. Your current situation and circumstances are simply the result of your past efforts and endeavors. Essentially, your history doesn't define you, it simply points out who you were as you were learning to be who you are. Wise people have always known that making poor choices and frequent mistakes is the way to grow and get better. It is those who get up every time they fall who, like cream, eventually rise to the top.