“We are hoping to make this an annual tradition, having the Metro boys come out to play the Friendship Games. We’ll also have festivities afterward, whether it’s a cookout or an ice cream social,” explained Villafane. “We are looking to grow the event every year and get more fans and recognition. This year we were able to hand out cleats to the players who wanted them, so maybe we’ll do an equipment giveaway [next year]. It sounds cliché, but it’s all about growing the game and helping others. Everyone is included.”
This year, Waltham Youth Lacrosse also returned to MBYLL after playing in the now defunct Patriot League the past few years. Villafane said it was a “good transition” and noted that it was nice to play at different venues and meet other coaches.“The games were competitive and fun,” continued Villafane. “It was a different atmosphere. We were happy to be back. We’ll continue to grow our teams and continue to grow as a league.”
Ultimately, having fun was the most important goal of the Friendship Games, but the event was beneficial in many ways. The interaction between the kids from each league was a major reason why the event was so successful, especially for the MetroLacrosse kids, who rarely get to play with other teams. The pickup scrimmage also enabled the players to learn the craft and harness their abilities. The Friendship Games reassured to everyone that lacrosse is a game and it is important to not get caught up in the competitiveness.
“Lacrosse in general is supposed to be fun,” said Villafane. “If a child is not smiling, you haven’t done your job as a coach. Go out there, have fun, and enjoy yourself. That is the whole point of playing.”
It is safe to say that this event did, in fact, put smiles on all the kids’ faces. Sometimes that is all that really matters in the end.
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