The Science Behind the Law of Attraction Magazine February, 2017 | Page 31

8 . Become the future you .
There is a current " single you ," and a future partnered or married you . One of the best ways to use the law of attraction to attract your perfect guy or girl is to become the person who is already in the relationship .
This is how it works : think of yourself now and think of yourself in your perfect relationship . How are you different ? Who do you become once you are in the relationship ? Maybe your answer is , " I become relaxed , confident , loving and kind ." Your answer is your clue to who you must become now .
Don ' t wait for the relationship to manifest ; you must first become the person who already has these qualities . This includes preparing your space for the partner of your dreams : Clean out your closet , empty a draw or replace that worn-out wallpaper . Think of all the ways in which you can prepare yourself and your life to be in perfect alignment with your perfect mate .
9 . Get your beliefs in order . Examine your beliefs about love and clean up any beliefs that don ' t support attracting , having and keeping your perfect relationship (" I ' m not attractive enough ." " I don ' t make enough money ." " All the good ones are taken "). The universe has a way of making your beliefs true , so if a belief doesn ' t support what you really want , it is time to drop it and develop beliefs that do . The universe responds to your feelings about yourself ; if you are feeling unworthy or undeserving , the universe reflects this back .
10 . Don ' t question how it will happen . Your job is to clearly and positively define what you most desire and to get in alignment with your desire through all the ways described above . Your job is not the how . Don ' t get caught up on how it ' s going to happen .
We live in a magical universe that can bring you exactly what you desire in the most amazing and even unbelievable ways . Getting caught up in the how can actually impede the law of attraction . If you are trying to control the how , you are likely getting in the way and making it more difficult than it has to be . Instead , let go of any ideas about how it has to happen and allow the universe to do its magic .
This doesn ' t mean you sit home and do nothing . The difference is that you await inspired action . Inspired action is that sudden feeling you should go the coffee shop even if you are not thirsty , or you should get gas on the other side of the street .
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