The Science Behind the Law of Attraction Magazine February, 2017 | Page 29

that are positively clear so that you can tell the universe exactly what you desire . (" I want a man who puts me first and loves me unconditionally .")
You can tell if your affirmation is positive or negative by the way it makes you feel . If it makes you feel great , it is positive . If it makes you feel bad , it is negative . It ' s that simple . If you find yourself thinking negative thoughts , simply turn them around and start focusing on the positive . You will immediately feel better and you will be in alignment with love .
2 . Continue to dream it . If you are ready for love , one of the best things you can do is get lost in day-dreaming about your perfect mate . As you imagine your ideal partner , the universe receives these images as indicators of what to create in your life . In your imagination , you can create and improve on your desired relationship until it meets your highest ideal .
Once you have that ideal image in your mind , replay it over and over , until one day you will find yourself actually living it . The power of your imagination is unstoppable and can transform your love life .
3 . Fall in love with yourself .
You can ' t expect someone else to fall in love with you if you are not in love with yourself . When we judge or criticize ourselves , we send out an energy that repels others . Self-criticism is a negative energy that will repel potential mates .
On the other hand , self-love is attractive and attracts potential mates . Make a list of ten characteristics you love about yourself and put this list where you can see it every day . It doesn ' t really matter what is on the list as long as it easily generates good feelings that you have toward yourself .
The more you focus on what you love about yourself , the more self-love you will experience . Others will fall in love with you , too , simply because it feels great to be around people who love themselves .
4 . Say no to jealousy .
It ' s natural to feel jealous when we see someone experiencing something we desire and don ' t have , but jealousy will actually keep love from coming to you . Jealousy is a negative emotion and
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