The Science Behind the Law of Attraction Magazine February, 2016 | Page 56
So, what do you do now? My advice is this:
I know it's hard, but don't get stuck on the
idea that this guy has to necessarily be the
one. He might be, he might not be. Stay
open to the possibility that he's the
precursor to someone even better.Focus on
why you like him so much. What are the
qualities that attract you? What specifically
do you like so much about him? Keep
focusing on those things. You're refining
your vibration, sending the Universe a
clearer message on what you want.Keep in
mind that there are many things you don't know about him, so you can't know that he's perfect for
you. Trust the Universe. The Universe sees the whole picture. If you're not getting together, there's
a reason. Don't force it. Every time you find yourself getting frustrated (about anything), you're
working too hard. You're trying to do the Universe's job. Stop that. Don't spend all of your time
obsessing about this guy, or the fact that you're single. Go do something fun, be happy. If you keep
thinking about how lonely you are, the Universe cannot bring you anything but situations that
make you lonely. Yes, this takes practice, but it's a lot more fun to focus on how great your life is
than on the fact that you're waking up alone every morning.
Of course, it is possible that as you do this, this guy that you like will end up being a match. You
don't have to give up on him altogether, just be open to the possibility that he's just an indicator
and someone even better is about to show up. After all, if this guy isn't a vibrational match to you,
meaning that you're not a match to each other, do you really want him? Neither one of you would
be happy in such a relationship.
There may be a part of you
that's thinking "But what if
that other, better guy never
shows up? Wouldn't it be
better to have this possibly
'imperfect' match now, than
nothing?" This fear of being
alone forever is perfectly
understand- able. We're
virtually bombarded by the
media, our family and friends
with the "fact" that if we
don't find true love and get
married by a certain age, we
are destined to die alone. We
are taught that we need
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