The Portal February 2015 | Page 21

THE P RTAL February 2015 “The other thing is, I am an Anglican woman who has lived with the grief of the endless debate over the ordination of woman for just about the entire time I’ve been a member of it - for my whole adult life we’ve been tearing ourselves apart over this - which means that one of the things that I love and in a way admire about the Roman Catholic Church is that when it does make a decision of monumental importance, it’ll take it next Thursday; none of this agonising and grief. “On the one hand you’re absolutely right that I do think it has made the likelihood of any realistic union much more difficult; on the other hand the Roman Catholic Church is going through a profound time of change itself. The profile of Roman Catholic priests, where they are coming from, is changing. You have ex-Anglicans who are married, who are exercising priesthood in the Roman Catholic Church, which is a step that many would not have believed would be possible going back a few decades. Page 21 “What about other provinces of the Church of England?” I wondered. “The Anglican Communion is a curious beast, like the Church of England. They say the reason why God created the CofE was in order to keep herself amused. But it’s a bit like that with the Anglican Communion. What is it? It’s a kind of federation of churches that have a kind of common history and relationship, but very little in the way of formal structures that bind them together. It’s a very strange beast. “You have profoundly conservative provinces, which differ from others; dioceses in America that have been pushing all kind of boundaries that would bring horror to some conservative African dioceses. Of course, the issue of homosexuality is another one that’s coincided, so it’s not just one fork flying, it’s two major ones. I very much hope we can remain together because I think we learn from one another and as you, Ronald, know, my favourite definition of community is that community is the place where the person you least want to live with always lives and the important thing is you need that person there because if that person isn’t there, how do you learn to grow in love and grace?” “That’s actually quite a radical shift [