The Perfect Gentleman Issue 2 - April 2016 | Page 54

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’I wear makeup for big events,’’ he explains,
‘’Applying makeup is like working on a live
canvas, which is awesome. Applying naturallooking makeup makes me feel like I’ve
improved myself.’’
Though it may make a man feel better about
himself, Ross believes that makeup will solely be
worn by city-dwellers. He believes that men will
express themselves through makeup in cities,
but not in smaller centres. So, if the makeup and
skincare standards of beauty are limited by
location, they cannot be universal. The standard
of male beauty remains elusive.
Interior Beauty
Is masculine beauty something we see,
something we can touch, or is it something
intangible? Beauty exists in a man with an open
heart, as much as there is beauty in the man
fearless enough to emotionally express himself.
Damian Romeo says that strong men should
come together, decide to take the road less
travelled, and show a spectrum of emotion.
Certainly, a part of male beauty is the ability to
be in touch with one’s feelings.

Equally as beautiful are kind and sensitive men,
men who are self-aware, men with a sense of
fun and a sense of humour, and men who
respect themselves, other people, animals, and
the planet. So is it a kind heart and respect for
nature? Or is it muscles, shoulder-enhancing
clothes, or good grooming practices that make
men beautiful? I think we can agree that the
concept of male beauty is complex and difficult
to define – after all, it really is in the eye of the
beholder.
Men’s beauty is subjective, which makes it
difficult to settle on just one concept, but there
is one common thread that connects it all.
There is only one thing that overrides the
frivolity of fashion, clothing fads, hairstyle
trends, and grooming methods: confidence.
Any man can take care of himself and wear the
latest fashions, but if he’s not confident, it won’t
be authentic. Confident people are by far the
most attractive. Confidence is certainty and the
belief in oneself. It drives us to success; it is the
conviction and the sense of pride that what
we’ve chosen to do is the right thing.
Confidence comes from the inside and
manifests on the outside. Confidence is pure, it
is real, and it is powerful. It is confidence at the
root of male beauty.

by Leah Morrigan

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