The Perfect Gentleman Issue 2 - April 2016 | Page 18

Romantic Gentleman
We are not saying be passive in your
conversation, interrupted to agree or confirm
points.
To get you going, good and open ended topics
of conversation are about places you have or
want to travel; music, movies or books that you
like. You should be willing to open up and share
your feelings about people and things BUT you
should always avoid previous relationships at
any level, you should be focused on this budding
one not previously fallen ones. The level of
sharing should be fun without being too
intimate or needy.
Sometimes, it is even best to let silence happen.
It is good way to judge whether the silence is
comfortable, which can indicate that you feel
relaxed in each other’s presence or a more
awkward one, where you are searching for
conversation.
Whatever the outcome of your date, you should
always be interested in the other person and
their life. It is not yours and therefore is
interesting.

Eyes, Hands and Bodies
Before you embark on the date, make sure you
are in a good positive frame of mind. If you are
not play some music that makes you happy and
positive. Put a smile on your face. These things
have been shown to change your mental state
the fastest.
Eye contact is important in the 1st date and there
is a line between good, flirtatious eye contact
and staring, domineering eye