The Local News Showdown of Faith | Page 10

A clean slate loving myself again My marriage was being destroyed by my husband’s drinking obsession. Even though I loved him, I hated him for what he was putting me through. Our constant arguments drove me to become suicidal. I tried everything, but coming to UCKG was the only course that provided real hope. I spoke to some advisers and, as time went on, I participated in faith-related programmes on behalf of my husband. The change did not happen overnight but it certainly came. Today, he has not drunk alcohol for 14 years. At the age of 15, I was in a relationship and was abused. It seemed impossible for me to forgive my abuser and love myself again. I started to hate him and hate myself, and because of this I experienced suicidal thoughts. I began to shave my hair and had the desire to cut myself. After coming to the UCKG and attending the meetings, I learned how to build a relationship with God. From there I learnt to love myself and who I was. Within a year, I have managed to forgive my abuser, and this has helped me move on. Toya Keshinro Ronie Samuel I fought hard for my spiritual life! I used to think that I was good for nothing and that no-one loved me, and I saw a lot of suffering and trauma. I stopped going to church and tried drinking and smoking on a few occasions. However, it all got too much for me, so I fought hard for my spiritual life. After attending the UCKG HelpCentre, I finally found the way. I got rid of all the hatred and fear from within me and, from then on, everything has changed inside of me; I have put an end to my emptiness and have found my path to peace. regaining my family Addiction took control of my life, and everything I did was just to satisfy my addiction. I would make empty promises to my daughter, which I really regret now. I even overdosed on one particular day. I’d had enough and started attending the UCKG meetings. This became the way and the start of something special. I started using my faith and put a stop to everything at once. I always wanted to come back and live with my daughter and my wife. I thank God and the teachings from the UCKG for helping me regain my family. John Zapata Denise Oyono peaceful sleep at last At the age of ten, I started having spiritual attacks. I would be scared to sleep due to the nightmares I was experiencing and so I needed to have my mum with me in order to sleep. Peaceful nights were not something I had the pleasure of experiencing, until I started putting into practice what I learnt at the UCKG, and there I found the way. Now I can sleep peacefully at night, I do not have spiritual attacks, and I do not wake up in the night from nightmares. Samantha Carpenter uckg.org • 020 7686 6000 Eliminating a persistent cyst I needed to go under the knife when I was first diagnosed with a cyst. Hours after the surgery, I woke up to the news that a four-litre cyst was removed along with one of my ovaries! From then on, I went for regular check-ups in the hope that this would never return — so when it did, I was in disbelief. Whilst at the UCKG one day, I realised that having faith in God was the way to overcome this. A few days later, I booked another ultrasound and the result showed that the cyst had disappeared. Now I am completely healthy and my body is back in working order. Tania Rei Friday, 16 February • 7:30pm Also at 7am, 10am & 3pm 11