{ PREMIER ISSUE 2018 } KHARISMA MAGAZINE
83 that stuff , but , there ’ s something missing . The first thing you must do is the inner work and figure out your big why and what we want to do . What ’ s your purpose ? If we ’ re living a life for a job that we don ’ t like , or relationship that is draining . That ’ s just the foundational thing . There ’ s a lot of work that needs to happen , before we can be positive or fabulous .
Let ’ s start with that . And it ’ s not an overnight job . It ’ s also important to get support . That ’ s where I come in , and that ’ s where the group of PFW ( Positive Fabulous Women ) comes in . It ’ s the support and connection with other people who get it . Especially when we ’ re taking action and we ’ re scared . Fear is part of life . It ’ s going to come up . So just embrace , accept and live with it . It ’ s actions but , inspired action .
ART OF LIFE . IT ’ S GOING UP . SO JUST EMBRACE , ND LIVE WITH IT .
So , it has to be connected to the community and the world even if we feel so small , like , who am I to change the world ?, but we change it . One tiny baby step at a time . When you do all the work and you love yourself , then you ’ re going to honour yourself and it ’ s not just about meditating all day and being all spiritual , but loving yourself , dressing in a way that really expresses who you are , and showing up in the world , just being you . Does that make sense ?
Kharisma : Yeah that ’ s fabulous . And I really thank you for sharing with us . It ’ s been awesome !