Ginny Lundgren and Paulette
Kupnicki are still in love 32 years
later
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Larry and Sylvia Dalbello met in
the church choir
perseverance. Ginny Lundgren and Paulette Kupnicki have
been together for 32 years, and have faced their share of
challenges along the way.
They found each other in the 1980s, and met through
Kupnicki’s sister. Kupnicki’s marriage was falling apart and
Lundgren was also ending a relationship when the three
women travelled out west together for some time away from
life’s stressors. Kupnicki and Lundgren knew they were
attracted to one another, but there were doubts.
“Here’s a woman who’s
married and has four kids, and
I’m like, ‘So what is this? Is
this a summer fling? Is this
just a change of pace for the
moment?’ says Lundgren. “So
to get involved, I didn’t want
to do that,” says Lundgren.
“So we kind of hung out while
she was there and then she
came back to Windsor and I
stayed another two weeks
and…when I came back, I got
off the airplane at the airport and…she’s standing there with
all four kids.”
Even when they decided to be together, they weren’t open
about it for quite some time. There were societal pressures,
and Kupnicki’s access to her kids to think about.
“We were hiding all the time, we didn’t go out publicly
and didn’t do much stuff,” says Lundgren. “If we were going
to do anything socially, we would go over to Detroit.” Even
today, Lundgren still is hesitant to hold Paulette’s hand once
they leave the privacy and safety of their home.
“You just didn’t do that out on the streets,” says
Lundgren. “I had people come after our car, kick the car and
things like that and so for years, you just didn’t do anything
and you were very cautious of how you acted out in public.
They were scary times and a lot of fear about being yourself.”
To make things more difficult, the two could only see each
other on weekends for years, since Kupnicki had her children
Windsor-Essex
is the backdrop
for countless
love stories
“Piglet: How do you spell
“love“?
“Pooh: You don’t spell it...you
feel it.
“ A.A. Milne