The Gay UK November 2015 Issue 16 | Page 105

ADVICEMIND ten minutes later at the beginning of the sleep cycle. The worst point to be woken up. Instead of using your alarm try and exercise mind and body into resetting your biological clock so you'll wake naturally. I do not advise to start training this during a working week as you may run into trouble. 5. Avoid screens (2). Do not reach out for your phone or laptop the second you wake up. Those e-mails, messages and Tweets can wait. Immediately going for the phone means you're starting work the moment you wake up causing stress levels to rise abruptly. Reading Twitter does not equal time for yourself. As internet late at night you'll be on that phone/tablet for the next 40+ minutes, losing precious time and will stress you for the rest of the day. 6. Begin the day with positive affirmations: Find a motivational meditation that speaks to you and play it the moment you wake up. Early in the morning your mind is very susceptible and the affirmations will remain with you throughout the day. Alternatively, if you do not like to play recordings early in the morning: reading positive affirmations instead will do just as well. of yoga for example, a few sit ups a little cardio or Pilates, even going up and down the stairs a few times. (Always, always stretch before anything you do though!) Doing some moves early in the morning is like physical coffee that gets you going. 9. Practise Mindfulness: Take your breakfast and relax. Eat slowly and try to truly taste what you are eating. After you have finished don't jump up immediately but slowly close your eyes and do a brief body scan. Take a few breaths and pay attention to what you feel and hear around you. This should take no more then two or three minutes: a mini meditation. 10. Talk to your loved ones: Take some time out to talk to your partner/family or live in friend. Give a kiss and a cuddle. The best way to start the day is with love. 7. Go over your daily goals: What was it you had planned for the day? What is essential? Remember it and think about how you want to do it. 8. Do some exercise: Some people swear by exercising first thing in the morning: it is easy to see why: it gets done and sets you up for the rest of the day. It is also obvious why many more people feel quite queasy at the thought of doing strenuous exercise first thing in the morning. Still, even if you don't like working out first thing in the morning, it is a good idea to atleast do something to wake up your body, your metabolism and your mind. Try ten minutes of easy exercise that suit you. A bit THEGAYUK | ISSUE 16 | NOV 2015 105