The Gay UK Issue 1 | Page 51

THEGAYUK WINTER 13 /14 Issue 1 FEATURE Is the gay community as politically charged today as it was in the 80s and 90s? ! ! PS: Yes it is charged up. AIDS forced us out of the closet. Either we laid down and died and got wiped out or we had to stand up and come out of the closet and fight back. ! Once we did that, we realised that as a community we had immense power and this film just shows it beautifully. We had this innate power as a community and that launched the modern gay rights movement. Especially in the States with gays in the military first and nobody ever thought we'd have close to 20 states now in the US with gay marriage. ! Gay marriage is now happening in the UK and across Europe and countries in South America. This is just something I would never have dreamed of. ! It became the issue in the gay rights movement because all my friends ! It’s still quite challenging. You have to take the medication for the rest of your life. You have to remain anally compulsively engaged in the healthcare system in order to not screw that up because, if you mess up on your meds you will eventually get sick. There are still people with HIV who die. I wouldn’t wish this on anyone and we need to give the real picture. DF: We have to keep on talking about it. That’s what we’re not doing. People are making decisions about their own lives in a total vacuum thinking, ‘So I’ll take a pill a day’ and if we were talking about it collectively as a community we might be up to convey the information that Peter is talking about. That these pills are really tough pills. It might give you a near normal lifespan but it’s not going to give you, necessarily, a near normal life. We don’t know what people are going to be like 50 years out on this medication. “I think if I was a 22-year-old HIV negative man now I’d be pretty oblivious myself. I think it’s human ! PS: Plus the stigma is horrible, nature” and you’re going to face a life of With the sharp increase of new HIV infections, particularly amongst young gay men, how does that make you feel, when you see that happening? ! ! now I’d be pretty oblivious myself. I think it’s human nature. We just have to accept that and work around it and use social media and tell the real story about how living with HIV still is something that nobody should want to face a life of. ! There are massive amounts of activism around, but I wish there was a little bit of it to be brought back to finish the work on AIDS. I speak out about that a lot these days because obviously the crisis is not over. It’s liveable but the virus is still infecting way too many gay men and we need to fight that. We need to slowly wind down this epidemic. We have the tools to do it. ! PS: It’s frustrating, but I don’t feel anger towards younger gay men who are not responding to HIV like my generation responded to it because it was two very different times. My generation changed its behaviours and fought against HIV / AIDS. were dying in front of me. In the absence of that death, which only happened because of the amazing success of the activism we did, you have a very different challenge, you have apathy. ! There’s a lack of fear and without that fear, which is an incredible motivator for behaviour change and activism, it’s a very different battle. ! So I’m not casting blame, I think if I was a 22-year-old HIV negative man that stigma: Dating, finding a boyfriend or a future husband, you’ll find a massive challenge. It is a massive challenge for people who are HIV and that’s horrible but that’s the reality that we’re faced with these days. ∎ ! ! ! ! ! How to Survive a Plague is available to watch on Netflix, Amazon, and iTunes 51