The Cone Issue #8 Winter 2016 | Page 62

How long will you guys be on site working in the village? In the village, as little as 5 days! But they are a powerful 5 days. If it was up to me, I’d love to stay longer, but after my experience in Malawi I see how it aligns with buildOn’s approach and methodology. We’re immersed from the moment we arrive. Every morning we check in with why we are there, take the time to talk about our intentions, and then head out into the field and bust our asses throughout the day. In the later half of the day, we have the option to take part in cultural exercises and interact with the community beyond hauling bricks and carving into the soil with shovels. When I started my research, I came across the term ‘Voluntourism’. It’s a deadly term man – especially as you just learned, I can get selfconscious. It killed my mood for a whole 5 minutes. The headline briefly stopped my heart. For those who don’t know what it is, it’s a small amount of time for people spend in a foreign country, spend a good amount of money, briefly get their hands dirty, and return with a butt-ton of selfies to boast about at home. I didn’t want to be leading these people into the wrong direction so I lost my sense of why I experienced already and let an article mess with my head. Good intentions are wonderful, but even with them you could be doing more damage than good. If it isn’t rooted in immersing yourself fully into the community your working with, if you don’t in some way make the point to get to know the community, what their needs are, who they are as a people, you could actually cause more harm than good. It’s important to show you respect them. To me, there’s no point in coming in, doing some work, and leaving. I want our community we’re building in to know we genuinely want to be there and want to know everything about them. They matter to us. When I finished the article, I was relieved and empowered to know buildOn doesn’t fit into that ugly generalization based on my experience in Malawi. Phew. It isn’t a charity or cultural tour of poverty or necessary labor for school construction. I wouldn’t even say it’s volunteering. As buildOn says, it’s an act of solidarity to live, work, and learn together in our international community. As I’ve learned through buildOn, it’s a ‘Learning Service’. I know that was a painfully long answer to your question but its very important to understand it’s not the amount of days we spend in country that is important, its how we spend our time that will leave the biggest impact. It’s important to know the physical labor is only a portion of our responsibility. We will arrive, help build the foundation of the school, but the village is just as much a part of the building as we are. The entire experience is about the ‘WE’ and not “US and THEM’. When we travel, its important to not leave any garbage behind and that includes any judgments that as Americans, we show up, give some things away, and then peace out. We’re all accountable and we’re all in this together. That’s why I wanted to build with them – it’s a collaborative effort. Bhote Koshi Photo by Moralist 62 THE CONE - ISSUE #8 - WINTER 2016