cyber safety
The internet offers a world of opportunities.
People of all ages are:
• Posting video from mobile devices.
• Building online profiles.
• Texting each other from their mobile device.
• Creating alter egos in the form of online avatars.
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Connecting with friends online they don’t see regularly in person.
Sending photos to friends.
Broadcasting what they’re doing to hundreds of people.
These ways of socializing and communicating can be fulfilling, and yet, they come with certain risks:
Inappropriate conduct: The online world can feel anonymous. Kids sometimes forget that they are still accountable for their actions.
Inappropriate contact: Some people online have bad intentions, including bullies, predators, hackers and scammers.
Inappropriate content: You may be concerned that your kids could find pornography, violence or hate speech online.
You can reduce these risks by talking to your kids about how they communicate – online and off – and encouraging them to engage in conduct they can be
proud of.
This section covers what you need to know, where to go for more information, and issues to raise with kids about living their lives online.
TALK TO YOUR KIDS! Not sure where to begin? Consider the following:
Start early: After all, even toddlers see their parents use all kinds of devices. As soon as your child is using a computer, a cell phone or any mobile device,
it’s time to talk to them about online behavior, safety, and security. As a parent, you have the opportunity to talk to your kids about what’s important
before anyone else does.
Create an honest, open environment: Kids look to their parents to help guide them. Be supportive and positive. Listening and taking their feelings into
account helps keep the conversation afloat. You may not have all the answers, and being honest about that can go a long way.
The best way to protect your kids online? Talk to them. Research suggests that when children want important information, most rely on their parents.
Initiate conversations: Even if your kids are comfortable approaching you, don’t wait for them to start the conversation. Use everyday opportunities to
talk to your kids about being online. For instance, a TV program featuring a teen online or using a cell phone can tee up a discussion about what to do –
or not do – in similar circumstances. News stories about internet scams or cyberbullying, for example, also can help start a conversation with kids about
their experience and expectations.
Communicate your values: Be upfront about your values and how they apply in an online context. Clearly communicating your values can help your kids
make smarter and more thoughtful decisions when they face tricky situations.
Be patient: Resist the urge to rush through conversations with your kids. Most kids need to hear information repeated in small doses for it to sink in. If
you keep talking with your kids, your patience and persistence will pay off in the long run. Work hard to keep the lines of communication open, even if
you learn your kid has done something online you find inappropriate.
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