Solutions February 2019 | Page 48

The Conviction for Leadership By ERIC Geiger and Kevin Peck We have five daughters, and no sons, between us, so we are adept at executing ponytails, discussing princesses, and painting pottery. We have vacationed together several times, meaning we have waited in lines together for hours at Disney World to secure a signature from a princess, and our wives have scolded us, “Slow down, they are little girls” when driving a boat with our daughters trailing behind on a big tube. Fathering girls is different than anything we have ever done, and we both love it. On our best days, we embrace the enormity of the responsibility with eyes toward the future. We are helping prepare our girls for life outside our homes. Our time with them is short, and it is moving so fast. Our role is not to keep them in our homes forever. Our role is to not to help them live out the Christian faith only when they are safe in our presence, but also in our 48 • Solutions absence. One day, we won’t bring them to work like we bring them to school. One day, we won’t make all the choices for them that we are making now. Our role is to equip them, not to feverishly attempt to live their lives for them. Leading people in a local church is very similar. Leaders, when embracing