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use 3. Do his job. Give your husband a break this week. Does he normally take out the trash? You do it instead. Is he the one usually responsible for vacuuming out the vehicle and taking it through the car wash? Surprise him and do it instead. 4. Send him off. Send your husband off—either by himself or with a few of his friends—to do something he enjoys doing that you do not. Get him tickets to a sporting event, concert, or auto show. Make up a coupon to send him off on an entire day of fishing. Buy him a gift card to a sports-themed restaurant so he can take a buddy there to order barbecue wings and watch the big game. 5. Bring up his childhood. Find a time to talk with your husband, asking him about his childhood. What was his favorite toy or board game? How about the sports team he most loved rooting for? Then head to an online auction site such as eBay to try to purchase an item from his childhood. What fun it will be when he opens it, bringing back a flood of fond memories. 6. Leave a treat. Here’s an easy one: leave his favorite snack or candy either on his pillow where he will discover it before bedtime or on the dash of his vehicle where he will see it in the morning before he goes to work. Make sure to leave a little note with it telling him something that you love about him. 7. Rally the troops. Gather the children (or poll some of your spouse’s closest friends) and come up with a “Top Ten Solutions • 45