Solutions February 2019 | Page 38

He made a decision. The pulpit had to go. It began that Sunday afternoon. On Friday of the next week, Derek asked the two custodians to move the massive old pulpit out. He replaced it with a new style of pulpit, a small lectern that was barely noticeable. Now, he thought, the pulpit will complement my preaching style. First, there were a series of e-mails. All of them were negative, though the tone varied in intensity. One member of five years kindly suggested, “You should have given us a bit of forewarning.” On the other extreme, a seventy-something member went right at the pastor: “What you have done is heretical! You ought to be ashamed of yourself. I think we need to call a vote of confidence about you.” In hindsight, the pastor now realizes he should have expected the explosion. And he admits he entered the worship service that Sunday with a bit of naiveté. He should have noticed the tension among some in the room. H e s h o u l d h ave s e e n t h e q u i e t conversations taking place before and after the services. “I was both blind and blindsided,” Derek confessed. “I did not notice the rumblings and the murmurings that Sunday morning. I guess I had become overconfident in my leadership style.” 38 • Solutions The rest of the e-mail was another eight hundred words, but you get the point. It was bad. Real bad. Derek lost count of the e-mails, the meetings, and the phone calls that week. There was not a supportive voice among them. He stopped looking at Facebook after he saw several posts blasting him.