Solutions December 2018 | Page 42

Old Is a Dirty Word By ERIC THURMAN Don’t call me “old” or, even worse, “elderly.” I’m even a little testy about being called a “senior citizen.” I don’t care for “prime timer” either. Though I realize I’m in my seventies, on the inside I think of myself as a lot younger, somewhere in my fifties. I look in the mirror and see gray in my hair. And admittedly my stamina isn’t what it once was. But I still have a lot of drive. In fact, I’ve never known more—I think I have a lot of good miles left in me. I get a chuckle from a witty meme making its way around social media: “I’ve decided I’m not old. I’m 25, plus shipping and handling!” Do you feel younger and feistier than your birth certificate suggests? If so, good for you. That attitude prevails among people who thrive in their third season. Lynn Peters Adler, JD, is founder and director of the National Centenarian Awareness Project that 42 • Solutions honors people who live to age one hundred and beyond. She says that people over one hundred years of age don’t feel or act their age either: “The majority of active centenarians say they do not feel their chronological age; on average, they report feeling 20 years younger.”