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Motherhood wasn’t easy for Cathleen, but it taught her that love is about sacrifice. Reflecting on God’s plan to save her, Cathleen shared, “God knew that my pregnancy would be the only thing to stop me in my tracks and turn me back in the direction of truth. I shudder to think of the person I would be today if I’d made the ultimate choice to throw my son’s life away. God used my unplanned pregnancy as the means to change my belief that Christianity is a religion of laws into a belief that I serve a personal God and a merciful Savior.” of our children. Cathleen finished telling her story at our church by sharing what she learned through her experience. “I stand here today a believer in three things. First, no matter the circumstances from which a pregnancy is conceived, life is always a gift. My son Dominic is a huge testament to that reality. Secondly, God’s promises are true, and the choice to obey him will always result in blessing. Thirdly, the lies of this world are lies, and a sinful choice can never result in happiness. Only by clinging to Christ’s goodness, imputed to me on the C a t h l e e n r e c a l l e d t h a t , i n a l l h e r cross, can I change from the person I have disobedience, she knew that with one been and become truly fulfilled.” phone call home to her parents, everything would be alright. She didn’t doubt their The day Cathleen turned from her sin, all love or their unwavering convictions and heaven rejoiced, and the Great Shepherd knew that they would support her decision who sought out this lost sheep celebrated to keep her son. That assurance bolstered the loudest. Back on earth, her family is her courage to make that call. In the end, still rejoicing. God used Jim and Barb’s parenting—the value they passed on to their daughter Adapted from Parenting First Aid: Hope for the Discouraged. © 2018 by Marty Machowski. Used by regarding the sanctity of life—to save her. permission of New Growth Press. Excerpt may not be God has a way of humbling us as parents reproduced without the express written permission of New Growth Press. To purchase this and other to depend on him, but once we cling to resources, please visit www.newgrowthpress.com. him, he uses our labors for good in the life Marty Machowski Marty Machowski is a Family Life Pastor at Covenant Fellowship Church in Glen Mills, Pennsylvania, where he has served on the pastoral staff for thirty years. Machowski leads Promise Kingdom, the gospel-centered children’s ministry of Covenant Fellowship. He is the author of numerous resources for churches and families, including The Gospel Story for Kids series, The Ology, and Parenting First Aid. Machowski and his wife, Lois, and their six children reside in West Chester, Pennsylvania. He is also the Executive Editor for Children’s Resources at New Growth Press. Solutions • 21