Solutions August 2018 | Page 60

Handling Bad Days By Dr. Robert Jeffress When bad days come, most of us want God to show up and do big things: miraculous healings, the sudden and unexpected return of a prodigal, addictions broken overnight, or a mountain of financial debt magically erased. But God usually answers in less dramatic ways. He offers us courage to face our illnesses, wisdom to handle our finances, and grace in our struggle with sin. It is with a “still small voice” that God calls us out of our caves in which we have hidden. And with a gentle whisper, God urges us to cry for help during the storm. But to hear and heed Him, especially when the wind is howling and the waves are crashing, we must learn how to discern and listen to God’s voice. David was an extraordinary leader and the textbook definition of significance. 60 • Solutions But David was not exempt from experiencing bad days. Perhaps his worst day is recorded in 1 Samuel 30. After one of their missions, David and his men returned to the town of Ziklag only to discover that the Amalekites had destroyed their homes and taken their wives and children. Incredibly discouraged, David’s men talked openly about stoning him. Talk about a bad day! But notice how David responded: David was greatly distressed because the people spoke of stoning him, for all the people were embittered, each one because of his sons and his daughters. But David strengthened himself in the Lord his God. (1 Sam. 30:6) You may never experience a devastating house fire, the kidnapping of a family member, or a mutiny by your most trusted allies—all on the same day—but you will inevitably face your own bad days. Everyone who wants to